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who should i trust

hi everyone,

I'm currently seeing this guy, but i get on very well with his friends as well. One of them has told me that he has supposidly come on to another girl several times recently, but the thing is a) this mutual friend has been know to stir and slightly change the truth before, but b) the guy i'm seeing has been unfaithful with previous girls. so who should i believe this friend, or just come out and ask this guy if he's interested in someone else?

thank you

Reply 1

*Sunflower*

Hmm, tricky situation, I guess you'll just have to confront the one you're seeing as say, well are you going after someone else, see what he says and take it from there? Sorry cant be of more help!

Reply 2

SmilerNuts

Only problem is he may take it badly and break up with you for not trusting him, even if he is innocent. can be hard to trust someone with a track record though...

Reply 3

hotfuzz

Yeah, just confront him.

Reply 4

James

Yes, it's hard to give advice when we don't know any of the people concerned. Generally, I would suggest that you bring it up with your boyfriend and see what he says. :smile:

Reply 5

Ron Burgundy

Now i dont know for certain but i think diversity is an old wooden ship that was used during the cival war.

Reply 6

SmilerNuts

Ron Burgundy

Now i dont know for certain but i think diversity is an old wooden ship that was used during the cival war.

its the civil war and what the hell are you talking about>?!

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

SmilerNuts

Only problem is he may take it badly and break up with you for not trusting him, even if he is innocent. can be hard to trust someone with a track record though...

thats what i'm worried about...that he'll just fly on the handle. should i just say i've heard from around uni that you've been coming onto the other girl?

Reply 8

SmilerNuts

you could try that but then he could get amd that you believe rumours like that about him. you just have to be very careful, if he goes off the handle try to laugh about it or something. i dunno!

Reply 9

James

You have two options:
(1) Confront the issue
(2) Don't

Both have potential disadvantages, but you're much better off going for the first one. Otherwise this will continue to bother you, and you won't be able to have a normal relationship anyway :smile:

Reply 10

trina

Why not tell the truth, it's been bothering you and you know this other person is often untruthful and is probably lying, but you just want to hear it from him. (Perhaps leave out the bit about your boyfriend's past record though...)