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Attention from girls has inflated my ego

Hello ppl i need some advice and some help. Ok heres how the story starts.

When i first started secondary school i was just average in looks in fact i did n't really care about my looks cos i was 11 any way as time went by years in fact up to year 11 i only had about 1 girl intrested in me. So i took the general idea that i was average in looks.

THEN I CHANGED SCHOOLS.

I mean from about the first month i had a girl interested in me and the attention didn't stop there was a t least a new girl interested in me every few months. Ok at first it was hard to understand what they saw in me although i was one of the only black guys in an all white school. But soon i came to relise the fact that i might be a little over average in looks. Now i've finished school and i get grown women commenting on my " attractiveness."


I'm a boy by the way if you haven't already guessed.
Anyway the problem isn't the fact that i get the attention in fact its quite nice, it was the fact the now my head is growing at a very fast rate. When i meet new females i can't help thinkin now that they are checkin me out.
I'm really not an arrogant person and i don't want to be, but i've noticed that all the attention from females has changed my perception of myself.

Has anyone ever experienced this or got any comments on how i can calm my ego.
Reply 1
Accept that you're attractive; but remember it's important to be appreciated for your actual personality too! Personally, while it's nice to have guys making comments towards me, sometimes it does actually bug me because I know they don't care about the person that I am at all and personally that doesn't feel so great. So I just keep a little perspective I guess.
Reply 2
i'm exactly the same, before i came to uni i only got the odd girl. Now its none stop, it is a bit hard to control the ego but its good to let it grow a little bit
Reply 3
'All the girls fancy me and it makes me feel GREAT.'

Yes that seems to be a very serious problem. I really feel for you.
Reply 4
iis
'All the girls fancy me and it makes me feel GREAT.'

Yes that seems to be a very serious problem. I really feel for you.


It can actually be a problem for some people; not sure why. :/ Maybe the attention gets annoying.
Reply 5
I know how you feel but i cant give you any sympathy!

Im a horrible person :biggrin:
Reply 6
It can actually be a problem for some people; not sure why. :/ Maybe the attention gets annoying.


Ye, I agree. But as problems go, there are much worse things that could happen. You could bang your knee, for example.
Reply 7
iis
Ye, I agree. But as problems go, there are much worse things that could happen. You could bang your knee, for example.

Hahahaha!
Reply 8
HAHA! ... you become so full of it watch! ... your gona think everyone is after you, when that odd 1 person is not, they will be the one you will go for... hard to get will turn you on :p: