Am I too turned off by vanity in guys?

I don't bother much with my appearance so wouldn't know but it isn't very masculine to be so concerned with your appearance so I think you're relatively normal a lot of girls prefer more rugged guys.

Ah those types are so off-putting, and I know plenty. Yeah, I prefer a guy who's a little more chilled out about all of that.

Completely normal that you want to be the woman rather than have a woman.

I agree, it's a preference really. Some guys are so into looking like they're straight off Geordie shore.
A normal looking guy who's down to earth definitely wins


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I don't mean to be fussy yeah, some of them are nice people Just a turn off if he's vainer than I am.

A lot of guys (girls too but I'm not lesbian haha) are really vain these days. I go to the gym and take care of my appearance but a lot of them are vainer than me. I like to save too and am shocked by guys who do things like spend £30 on a T shirt, even if they earn a lot.

I couldn't stand dating a guy who was always trying to show off designer labels or spent a lot of money in them or was always peacocking in the mirror doing his hair and stuff. I also hate it when guys take loads of selfies pulling "hot" or goofy faces all the time, or describe themselves as "dapper" and "classy" because they wear fedoras or something. I'm not "low maintenance" but I don't like to waste money, take lots of selfies myself or wear make up so maybe that's why.

Am I too fussy though? Haha.

Haha, the Geordie shore/TOWIE look is defo a turn off

Even a lot of the guys I know who look like this (this is normal right?) though are sooo into the brands they wear etc. It's off putting.

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What's wrong with spending £30 on T shirts some of us even spend more on them. I wouldn't call a guy vain who spent lots of money on clothes perhaps if they were all designer brands then yeah. As for the selfies you just admitted to taking them lots yourself so why would it be vain for a guy to do the same. Would you rather date someone who didn't care about their appearance and wasn't particular well groomed instead of someone who is? I don't recall fedoras being even worn by anyone under 30. No, you don't seem fussy perhaps a little insecure?

I knoww! If anyone looks like something off TOWIE that's a no no.

I don't mind if boys want to look nice but if you're going to brag or wear designer labels every single day, that's off putting. Things are more important than making sure every item of clothing you have is designer

Well I'm ugly and short which isn't great for a guy so I'm going to buy trendy clothes, go the gym, get a good haircut etc because something needs to overcome the other flaws

I agree it's exhausting

I said the opposite

It just seems like a waste to me. I can afford to spend that money on clothes myself but I don't. Obviously £30 for a coat or something would be reasonable. Did you see the thread where someone found a £75 pretty much plain Burberry T shirt for just the logo? That's the kind of thing I mean.

How am I insecure lol. Fussy maybe



Yeah, designer stuff doesn't always look best anyway, and isn't always necessarily the best quality. Sometimes you're just paying for the logo.

Bragging is unnecessary too, esp. when paired with multiple selfies

"It just seems like a waste to me" Do you not realise how silly you're coming across with that statement of yours? Some people will spend lots on clothes whilst others on makeup like yourself? Is it rightful to judge someone on what they want to spend money on? No. Is there much difference between someone spending hundreds of pounds on clothes or makeup?

Bragging is unnecessary which I agree with but selfies are not. You can't put a guy down for taking selfies like cmon. Ok you may not be insecure but sure as hell are fussy.