Undercover Lover

Could you ever be someone's undercover lover???
Could you handle it?
Would you always want more?
Would you feel second best?
What about the guilt?

Discuss!! :biggrin:

Reply 1

Birds

Could you ever be someone's undercover lover??? I have been but didn't know
Could you handle it? No it broke my heart!
Would you always want more? Everybody wants more than that, he asked me to continue but you can't be in a relationship like that.
Would you feel second best? Duh.
What about the guilt? Not on my part, he's the one doing the mistake. If you know about it then you are an accomplish.

Reply 2

Segat1

No i have "Part Time Lover" by Stevie WOnder in my head.

Doo doo doo doo doo, dadoo da do, doo doo doo PART TIME LOV-AH!

Curse you 80s music

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Reply 3

grace

i have been, and i liked it at the time because i had the stupid immature thought that i was somehow better than his girlfriend for him to keep coming back to me. he dumped her a few times and asked me out but i never wanted to, because i figured he'd just do the same to me as he was doing to her, and this way i felt like i'd have the upperhand.

it ended up making me feel like ****, and i think it may be partly responsible for my hugely suspicious nature. I would never, ever, ever do anything like that again. it's just stupid and cruel.

Reply 4

ice_cube

I have had the option but chose not to. Personally couldnt do it, Im an all or nothing girl.

Reply 5

Nix!

I'd rather choose not to allow myself into such a situation. It's only ever going to end up with someone getting hurt.

Reply 6

ro-ro

I have slept with a guy before who, when I said afterwards don't tell our mates, revealed he had a girlfriend. I was livid and wouldn't sleep with him again. I felt pretty bad for her.

I've also got with a guy (who spiked my drink with alcohol to get me wasted) and he had a girlfriend. I didn't feel guilt that time because I figured if he was going to play away it wasn't my fault. He would do it with someone else.

I've cheated on guys before. Not long term, I am more of a cheat, can't lie so reveal the truth and then get shot. This is probably because I like to be the one to use and discard (yes I know I'm horrible) so cheating suits me.

Reply 7

prettyblueeyes

No I wouldn't be happy and would not knowingly get in to a circumstance where I was someone's undercover lover!

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