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Forgiven?

I had a good, close, female friend recently for a bit.

I said some stupid things which made me loose her, completely it seems now.

All she has said is she has forgiven me for things I said but still doesn't talk to me or make up?

I don't really understand what she means by she's forgiven me when she won't talk to me.

Is it possible to forgive someone for whatever, but then just loose them out of your life?

Reply 1

clearly, she hasn't forgiven you...

try explaining to her that you really didn't mean the things you said, being as sincere as possible - I find email is a good way to apologise - that way, you can think about what you want to say beforehand and she can't interrupt you and cause you to lose your train of thought... it also gives her time to digest the apology at her leisure, unlike a verbal apology

Reply 2

i have to agree you'll probably find best to reason with them reach some sort of agreement so you both know where you stand them you can both take it from there.

Reply 3

Forgiving you doesn't mean she's forgot things that were said/done.

Reply 4

She forgived you but she wants nothing to do with you thats all. im in a kind of similar situation in my halls. except im in your friends position. she has obviously forgiven you but like she feels like you broken a boundary which you should not have done. dont worry, it depends on how she sees the situation. anyhow i wish you luck and hope you and her reconcile!!!