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want girl, she plays games.

simple question really... girl plays games, plays hard to get. do you a) keep chasing her, hoping eventually she'll give in, or b) fight fire with fire, play it cool and make her see her games aren't working (but potentially make her think you aren't interested)

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b.

err.. i dont know try asking get phone txt her..

Reply 3

monkeymayhem

depend on how you know her, whats the context?

B.

Buy her Pro Evo 6, she'll go mental. :smile:

Then its just a short step before she gets the knee-pads out...

a for definate.

I attempted to ask some girl out last Friday, she just went into her lesson - maybe because she was genuinely late, or knew I was going to ask, or because she's just rude. Fifteen seconds it would've took, she could've easily afforded to be fifteen seconds late to say 'no.'

Either way, as soon as she walked into her lesson (and I'm SERIOUSLY about to ask too, blushing and all, and I've never asked anyone before, so you can imagine how difficult it was), I was like, 'Fine, I'm not going to waste any more effort on you.'

I've been completely detached from her since. I think she's been avoiding me, but that's all right, as I've been avoiding her too.

So basically: don't bother.

Reply 8

bunthulhu

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Snide

I attempted to ask some girl out last Friday, she just went into her lesson - maybe because she was genuinely late, or knew I was going to ask, or because she's just rude. Fifteen seconds it would've took, she could've easily afforded to be fifteen seconds late to say 'no.'

Either way, as soon as she walked into her lesson (and I'm SERIOUSLY about to ask too, blushing and all, and I've never asked anyone before, so you can imagine how difficult it was), I was like, 'Fine, I'm not going to waste any more effort on you.'

I've been completely detached from her since. I think she's been avoiding me, but that's all right, as I've been avoiding her too.

So basically: don't bother.

Er...how do you know she knew you were about to ask?

Reply 9

Nix!

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bunthulhu

Er...how do you know she knew you were about to ask?

He was down on one knee?

Reply 10

shewantstobeme

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depends if she genuinely likes you or is just in for the chase or a bit of fun.
ask her how she feels? she might like you being in control of the situation.

Reply 11

ro-ro

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Games are usually to conceal something. The best thing is to not follow rules (pull something shocking out of the hat) and then get her to open up (not forcefully just tease it out).

Reply 12

Snide

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Originally Posted by bunthulhu
Er...how do you know she knew you were about to ask?

I didn't. Which is why I said 'maybe' she knew. She knows I like her though, her cousin told her - God knows how she found out though.

Reply 13

Nalced

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soem girls just want you to die trying, and laugh at you

Reply 14

yellowdots

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definitely a. she might not realise she's playing games, maybe you should ask her outright..?

Reply 15

ro-ro

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Sometimes shouting at someone playing games works. I play games alot (I dunno why I just do) and sometimes guys shout at me and it gets through. Then I'm like Poo I'm being horrid. I don't mean any harm I'm just rather self-centred so I don't realise the consequences!