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Reply 1
get a hooker
Reply 2
Have you spoken to her about it? tell her how you feel but dont put pressure on her.
Reply 3
we've spoken about it. she says shes uncomfortable with her body and after a bit of discussion a few weeks back she said she was okay with masturbating me. tonight...comes to it...she pulls away.
making me pretty upset that ive got a girlfriend who wont touch me. sucks.
making me pretty upset that ive got a girlfriend who wont touch me. sucks.
Reply 6
yeah shes a virgin...so am i. im not really after full sex but something intimate as a couple will be nice. shes 15 im 16.
Well don't tell her she's making you depressed for goodness sake! 
She probably feels bad enough about the situation without hearing that.
Tell her you would really appreciate a bit more sexual contact and make sure she feels reassured and safe with you. Hopefully she will feel comfortable enough then.
She probably feels bad enough about the situation without hearing that.
Tell her you would really appreciate a bit more sexual contact and make sure she feels reassured and safe with you. Hopefully she will feel comfortable enough then.
Reply 10
Your girlfriend is underage. You shouldnt be pressing her for anything.
You need to talk to her. Theres a possibility that shes not even remotely ready for any sexual contact, and if so its better to find out sooner rather than later. Then at least you can reassess exactly how important it is to you and whether you want to continue a relationship without sexual contact.
Reply 12
No point in remaining anon crazyfunkydude since you gave away your identity in the first post.
Reply 13
Anonymous
Your girlfriend is underage. You shouldnt be pressing her for anything.
Exactly.
mc_hamster
Exactly.
They're both at a point where sex is seen as pretty much legal under the law (even if she is technically under 16, noone would prosecute a 16 year old for having sex with a 15 year old). So the fact shes underage is meaningless. However, she just might not be ready for sex (as any girl can be, whether shes 15 or 19), and he needs to discuss this with her.
Reply 15
*ahem*
If she's not ready for sex, then that's her decision, you should not pressure or force anything on her, that would just make it not a gratifying when it happens.
If she's not ready for sex, then that's her decision, you should not pressure or force anything on her, that would just make it not a gratifying when it happens.
Reply 17
15 and 16, i remember my first girlfriend when i was about your age.
Try dry sex, fully clothed so no penetration, when youre in an 'intimate' monent kissing, touching eachother and cuddling, hold your body close to hers and try to mimic the movements youd expect with sex.
It might arouse her having you rubbing against her and can be physically stimulating even for both of you just having someone else pressed against your sexual organs.
Dont pressure her (i think theres laws agains having sex with 15 year olds) but perhaps the mood might strike and in the moment she might try touching you to feel you, or let you touch her - take it slow.
I started dating when i was about 16 and didnt sleep with a girl until i was about 19, but that doesnt mean you cant still both enjoy eachother without having sex.
Good luck
Try dry sex, fully clothed so no penetration, when youre in an 'intimate' monent kissing, touching eachother and cuddling, hold your body close to hers and try to mimic the movements youd expect with sex.
It might arouse her having you rubbing against her and can be physically stimulating even for both of you just having someone else pressed against your sexual organs.
Dont pressure her (i think theres laws agains having sex with 15 year olds) but perhaps the mood might strike and in the moment she might try touching you to feel you, or let you touch her - take it slow.
I started dating when i was about 16 and didnt sleep with a girl until i was about 19, but that doesnt mean you cant still both enjoy eachother without having sex.
Good luck
Reply 18
Oh for the love of goodness. Firstly at any age I wouldn't say you have to have sex any time quickly, unless you both want to! If she doesn't you should have the respect to wait for her, you're only 15 ! If you love her enough, you'll overcome your urge and wait. I'm 19 and I certainly haven't had sex.....and I certainly wouldn't want to be pressured into it either.
Maybe you should masturbate to get rid of the urges?
Maybe you should masturbate to get rid of the urges?
Zinck
Yeah because the laws of the American Deep South are always a good example of how the rest of the world will react. Muppet.
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