Is it appropriate to open up to your girlfriend about past relationships? Watch
I was really insecure at the beginning of our relationship but over time I've become stronger. She knows about these insecurities and has stuck by me so far because I think she is fine with anything as long as I'd stay honest and loyal towards her in which I plan to do.
But these days I am a little insecure still, and a lot of my past has been haunting me a lot lately causing me sleeping problems. She asked me earlier if I know what is haunting me, and I just told her she might as well know about it, but I'll explain it to her at some point later when I have time to talk to her about it.
But what is troubling me is some issues I've had with girls in the past that's just messing with my head a little bit, and I do want to get them out in the open about them and show her all the more that I am open and honest about things but also to just get a bit of feedback from her so just assure me that everything is fine between us..
Is it appropriate to explain things to her?
But as decent human beings communication is important in relationships, and if you feel comfortable telling her this and she doesn't mind, and you feel you'll benefit from it, go for it.
Exercise caution. I told my girlfriend about the girl who'd been ****ing with my head, and it just made her worry I wasn't over her. I also told her my whole sexual history because she insisted when drunk, and she said she wished she hadn't heard it after.
That doesn't sound good then :/ Maybe I will refrain from telling her in case she does worry I'm not over them even though I am
wasn't a big problem, we got past it pretty quick. I think part of the problem was she didn't have much history herself, also general insecurity, depends on the girl. Some problems are better shared with mates.