everything...but the pull

I find myself on nights out these days, chatting and flirting with girls with relative ease. As soon as things move to the dancefloor, everything is fine, but what has really puzzled me is that despite my skills in talking and flirting, and making girls laugh, i can NEVER go in for the pull. I just don't know how to make that transition from dirty dancing, to a snog!
help/suggestions please!

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Reply 1

xxsarahjwxx

Ask a girl if she wants to go outside for some fresh air, then you get her alone with no one to embaress you. Plus, if she agrees to go outside with you, the chances are she'll know what you want.

Reply 2

Louise88

Like the above poster said, ask her if she wants some fresh air and take her outside. This gives you the chance to be alone with her and if she goes outside with you, she probably likes you. From then on, you just need to go for it. Sometimes you have to ignore your worries and your insecurities and just go for it, be that on the dancefloor or outside.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

the way it sometimes happens is something like this: "you look so beautiful.. wanna make out?" ...but that would work only if ur really confident... a confident player i'd say..
gd luck

Reply 4

Oh my god...when you're dancing with her, just look in her eyes, if she makes eye contact and holds it, then go in for a kiss. It helps to be extremely drunk if you're nervous.

Reply 5

L0RA

I would never EVER go outside with a guy even if i fancied him and wanted to kiss him. Just because i'm very nervous of situations like that :s-smilie:

Like someone else said, if she holds your eyes go in and kiss her.

Reply 6

chocol@tte

L0RA

I would never EVER go outside with a guy even if i fancied him and wanted to kiss him. Just because i'm very nervous of situations like that :s-smilie:

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thats so cool "going for a walk"... i used to love doing this! just do it once and you'll get the "feeling"... i even find it more fun than going out with somebody lol

Reply 7

Cyclotron

if ur facing her dancing it shouldnt be too hard to get 'the vibe'

Reply 8

Cyclotron

Anonymous

the way it sometimes happens is something like this: "you look so beautiful.. wanna make out?" ...but that would work only if ur really confident... a confident player i'd say..
gd luck

dont say that

thats almost as bad as 'suck me beautiful'

Reply 9

bunthulhu

Anonymous

the way it sometimes happens is something like this: "you look so beautiful.. wanna make out?" ...but that would work only if ur really confident... a confident player i'd say..
gd luck

Dear lord. I would NEVER say yes to that :p:

Reply 10

chocol@tte

Cyclotron

dont say that

thats almost as bad as 'suck me beautiful'

no it's not... but ye its hard to imagine cos i've only met 1 guy in my life who could say that without making himself look funny.. he was just "gaing points" from his style of carrying himself tbh..

Reply 11

Dark and Lovely

"wanna make out" lool oh god no! I hate getting with guys when i'm out with friends because my male friends always stare when i'm just dancing with them...maybe the "do you wanna go somewhere and talk" thing is best! cause if she rejects you no one else will have seen it

and please refer to dirty dancing as grinding lol