Is he going to dump me?

Have been with my bf for 2 weeks - before we met up for the first time (got his msn add and started talking to him there) he would text and call loads saying he can't wait to see me, wants to be with me and only me etc... met him and he asked me out but the next day the texts and phonecalls stopped and he said he thought we rushed into things but should take it slowly and see how it goes... last night he said he can't get over the hurt of his last relationship because she treated him badly etc and that it's nothing to do with us and he just has issues. I text him this morning saying the usual hi howru and he replied saying tired only got 3 hours sleep so i said aww how come and he goes 'just stayed up late.'.
I'm seeing him on wed for val day but i'm convinced he really doesn't like me anymore and is going to dump me... i really like him...
what do you think? please help :frown:

Reply 1

singh1987

i dont think he is going to dump you. he might be uneasy with going in a new relationship. it depends what kind of person he is. i was hurt in my last relationship but i guess i realised you have to move on. i think he has jus calmed down, all he wanted was to woo you and then take it slowly. but i am the same as him, i go really fast then think i should have took it easy. let him get faith in relationships again, then i am sure he be different!

So go with the flow and see what he wants. actually ask him what he wants. he doesnt seem like a bad guy to me. he seems genuine.

I wish you luck for your future with him. i hope it all works out :smile:

Reply 2

SmilerNuts

15

Yeah just speak to him and let him see that not all girls are gonna try and hurt him in relationships

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for your replies - yeah i told him that i really like him and aren't going to treat him badly and am always there to talk to him if he wants a moan or anything. Really hope he doesn't break up with me though because it feels like he doesn't like me at all anymore :frown:

Reply 4

rawkingpunkster

You guys never met before getting together?

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Nop, best friend knows him and said we would like eachother so gave me his msn add. :frown:

Reply 6

singh1987

He be fine soon, dont worry about it!!! he had a bad experience once he tackles it, he be the same as before!!!

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Are you sure? because i was reading over last weeks msn convos/texts and he asked loads of q's and kept saying i miss you... now the texts are one word with no x's or questions :frown:

Reply 8

singh1987

Give him time, i am sure he get over it. i think he is just scared to get committed again and then getting hurt again.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

true - he shouldn't of asked me out the first time i met and told me he thought i was 'the one' then because now he's ignoring me its even more confusing and upsetting. thanks for your help.

OP

Anonymous

Have been with my bf for 2 weeks - before we met up for the first time (got his msn add and started talking to him there) he would text and call loads saying he can't wait to see me, wants to be with me and only me etc... met him and he asked me out but the next day the texts and phonecalls stopped and he said he thought we rushed into things but should take it slowly and see how it goes... last night he said he can't get over the hurt of his last relationship because she treated him badly etc and that it's nothing to do with us and he just has issues. I text him this morning saying the usual hi howru and he replied saying tired only got 3 hours sleep so i said aww how come and he goes 'just stayed up late.'.
I'm seeing him on wed for val day but i'm convinced he really doesn't like me anymore and is going to dump me... i really like him...
what do you think? please help :frown: