oral..

is there any need 2 make the boy wear a condom when giving him oral if u know he doesn't have any std's?

also if he has suggested to u that he wants u 2 but your not sure if he's being jokey or not what would you do??

Reply 1

Philosoraptor

Make him wear a condom ? Better safe than sorry ..

Reply 2

Sparkly-student

Make sure he has been tested for STD's before you agree to anything- they dont tend to show any symptons so he could think he is clear but not be. I would use protection until youre in a trusting long term relationship and have both been tested. If you're not sure whether he's joking you shouldn't do it anyway! Hope that helps.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Eeew condoms for oral.
No thankyou.

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

oooops never occurred to me for oral...that sounds really irresponsible doesnt it? Still, we have been going out for a year and a half so im not dead yet... :s-smilie:

Reply 5

Anonymous #4

Anonymous

Eeew condoms for oral.
No thankyou.

Eeew catching an STI.
No thankyou.

Reply 6

Meep!

Personally I wouldn't give oral, got a bit of a wierd phobia of it-I won't have it done to me OR do it, but if I were to, I'd use one.

Reply 7

Anonymous #3

before i met my bf i had a phobia of the idea of oral and i swore i'd never "lower myself" to do it but when u love someone u want to do it.

Reply 8

Anonymous #5

We used condoms at the start of our relationship, but haven't for the past 6 months or so. I'd suggest using them for a while until you are entirely comfortable.

Reply 9

Meep!

Anonymous

before i met my bf i had a phobia of the idea of oral and i swore i'd never "lower myself" to do it but when u love someone u want to do it.

Oh, it's not a case of 'lowering' myself to it. I love my bf, I really do (as one would hope really, being a couple of years down the line), but I just can't do it, or have it done to me.