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My Friends Slept Together....

I just found out that two of my friends slept together in October. I know its not that much of a huge deal, and it shouldn't concern me at all, but its a bit weird for a number of reasons.
1) She's already in a (longterm) relationship, so this points stuff out about their morals which is a bit shocking
2) He has basically been kind of ignoring her ever since, and the fact that he can sleep with her and then ignore him goes against everything that I thought he was
3) I thought he could tell me everything, and he obviously can't (I didn't find out through him).

I just feel really weird and I needed to get it out!! Has anybody else been in a similar situation? Do you reckon I should bring it up with him?
Ta. xx
Reply 1
Anonymous
I just found out that two of my friends slept together in October. I know its not that much of a huge deal, and it shouldn't concern me at all, but its a bit weird for a number of reasons.
1) She's already in a (longterm) relationship, so this points stuff out about their morals which is a bit shocking
2) He has basically been kind of ignoring her ever since, and the fact that he can sleep with her and then ignore him goes against everything that I thought he was
3) I thought he could tell me everything, and he obviously can't (I didn't find out through him).

I just feel really weird and I needed to get it out!! Has anybody else been in a similar situation? Do you reckon I should bring it up with him?
Ta. xx

*should say, "can sleep with her and then ignore her"
Sorry.
Reply 2
Anonymous
*should say, "can sleep with her and then ignore her"
Sorry.

:cool:

Its up to you if you talk to him about it. But remember it doesnt really have anything to do with you!
Reply 3
Sausage
But remember it doesnt really have anything to do with you!


Exactly, if they want to talk to you about it then fair enough.
Anonymous

1) She's already in a (longterm) relationship, so this points stuff out about their morals which is a bit shocking

Clearly she was unhappy in the relationship, otherwise she wouldn never have cheated.
Just because someone can talk to you about anything doesn't mean they have to. Leave it alone, it's none of your business.
Reply 6
They should both be killed. Thats the way cheating is seen on here :biggrin:
Reply 7
It's none of your business so I'd say stay out of it.
Reply 8
At least you still have a friendship left, these two obviously don't. I can see why you are annoyed they didn't tell you - but you are in the far better position!