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Guys..what do you make of this?

Have been with my bf for 2 weeks, last week he text and called constantly and got annoyed if i didn't immediately open msn convos with him when he signed on but then a few days later he started saying he has relationship issues because of his last gf and that he doesn't know if he can get over them and that it's nothing to do with us, he just has problems.
This week he hasn't called or text at all and ignores me online.. i told him that i wouldn't treat him badly and really like him to which he responded 'i know'. If i text him he will answer with one word and not ask any questions though he said he is taking me out for lunch tomorrow and we can sit and talk. What is going on? is he going to break up with me??

Reply 1

matt@internet

12

Dunno, wait and see.

Reply 2

SmilerNuts

15

Yeah let us know how lunch goes. maybe he's taking you out to try and say sorry for being weird with you

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

That sounds to me more like it - I doubt he will break up with you - let us know how it goes!!

Reply 4

SmilerNuts

15

why anon for that?!

Reply 5

ambiguous

SmilerNuts

why anon for that?!

maybe it's him!!!

Reply 6

SmilerNuts

15

ambiguous

maybe it's him!!!

Yeah! we've found you out! lol

Reply 7

Yellowmarshmellow

OP

Lol i don't think he reads tsr but if he does he should know how pissed off i am because i text him today going shall we meet at 1.30 2mro and i get a reply going 'K' so i reply going are u alright? and he texts back going 'Yes.' wtf am i meant to make of that??? :frown:

Reply 8

yellowdots

2

ugh i think i would get fed up with him texting 1 word answers. How annoying! I think you should tell him exactly what he's doing wrong and that it's bothering you. Then ignore him for a while and play hard to get, and im sure he'll come running back. As long as you explain beforehand why you're upset with him and that what he's doing isn't fair on you, it should be ok.. good luck :smile:

Reply 9

Stue

1

..

Reply 10

ambiguous

Men have their lows aswell you know. He may be going through a rough patch which is being reflected by his one word answers, you know, like little children.

Reply 11

--

3

He's either gonna dump you or hes a complete arse.

Reply 12

SmilerNuts

15

Or he could just be one of those people with no conversational skills... and boy have i met a few of them!
or as ambiguous said - maybe he is just looking for attention from you as he wants to tell you whats up with him

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Maybe he's actually a shaved gorrilla and hasn't mastered the art of conversation, or maybe he's so fat his thumbs can't hit the keys on his phone/keyboard very well so it takes him 30 mins to write one word and he leaves it at that.

Or maybe he's going to dump you, but he sounds like a troll anyways (not an internet-style troll, I mean an actual 6ft hairy 12-toed bug eyed freak that lives under a bridge).

Reply 14

SmilerNuts

15

Anonymous

Maybe he's actually a shaved gorrilla and hasn't mastered the art of conversation, or maybe he's so fat his thumbs can't hit the keys on his phone/keyboard very well so it takes him 30 mins to write one word and he leaves it at that.

Or maybe he's going to dump you, but he sounds like a troll anyways (not an internet-style troll, I mean an actual 6ft hairy 12-toed bug eyed freak that lives under a bridge).

hey stop speaking about me in such a bad light! its genetic!

Reply 15

c@luvr

Hah! I lol'd :biggrin:

Reply 16

SmilerNuts

15

c@luvr

Hah! I lol'd :biggrin:

is that a big deal for you?! lol

woop, its the day of the big lunch, i wanna know every little detail!

Reply 17

Yellowmarshmellow

OP

SmilerNuts

is that a big deal for you?! lol

woop, its the day of the big lunch, i wanna know every little detail!

hehe, it wasn't very interesting.. we went to pizza hut (for which he didn't pay for but meh), he gave me a card in which said 'to jenny 4rm *name*' and we spoke normally and wandered round the shops. After he text saying he feels bad for not writing in the card and is glad we're together. However last night he ignored me and was really rude when i called.
Such a confusing guy.. :s-smilie:

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

hmm........ sounds like a waste of space to me!

Reply 19

notsoperfect

1

doesn't sound hopeful to me. any relationship i've had that started like that went nowhere... you're supposed to be nice to each other at the start, after all, you barely know each other then and are trying to impress each other and have fun! just a pointer that my boyfriend now (my first long term relationship) has never acted like that, he is amazingly loving, caring and thoughtful, and i've dated a few moody guys like that in the past and it just never worked out and fizzled out quickly. he sounds very immature.

Guys..what do you make of this?

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