15 And Never Had a Girlfriend, am I screwed already?

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I'm 15 (almost 16) and have never been on a date, been kissed, had a girlfriend etc.
I'm pretty happy with most other aspects of my life, but this simple thing is making me constantly depressed and making me feel worthless.
I'm not completely shy around girls, I think I'm pretty sociable around some of my other female friends (All of which have boyfriends, btw), but I just haven't put the effort or mustered the courage to actually ask a girl out.
Almost everyone I know has had at least 1 girlfriend before, and I find that all I can do is compare myself to them.

And what this all amounts to is that I'm constantly anxious and worrying if I'll ever get a girlfriend. At this point I feel like I'll never be able to change the way things are. Hell, if every other guy has more experience then me, then what the hell am I supposed to do?

So, whats the deal? Have I screwed it up already, or am I just being pessimistic?
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I feel for you. Most people get girlfriends at the age of 8.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 15 (almost 16) and have never been on a date, been kissed, had a girlfriend etc.
I'm pretty happy with most other aspects of my life, but this simple thing is making me constantly depressed and making me feel worthless.
I'm not completely shy around girls, I think I'm pretty sociable around some of my other female friends (All of which have boyfriends, btw), but I just haven't put the effort or mustered the courage to actually ask a girl out.
Almost everyone I know has had at least 1 girlfriend before, and I find that all I can do is compare myself to them.

And what this all amounts to is that I'm constantly anxious and worrying if I'll ever get a girlfriend. At this point I feel like I'll never be able to change the way things are. Hell, if every other guy has more experience then me, then what the hell am I supposed to do?

So, whats the deal? Have I screwed it up already, or am I just being pessimistic?
Geez you're 15 god almighty when I was 15 girls was the last thing on my mind, it was all about football and playing video games. Quit worrying and live life to the full.
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No, ur not screwed. One of my friends isn't going to have a relationship until they're 18
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You're 15 ffs, you should be busy killing skrubs on CoD/GTA/Whatever not writing this :erm:
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I'm turning 16 next week and I've never had my first kiss/boyfriend and I really couldn't care less- most guys at our age have the phuck-boy haircut and only talk about sex. I'd rather wait for a mature relationship than go off with any guy that looks at me like majority of girls in my year do! I care more about getting into a good uni than going on dates at this point in my life tbh
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Do not worry. Never had one either (Im 17) and in the most part it doesn't really matter: As long as you have decent social skills, how many relationships youve been in shouldnt affect how you end out in the long run. If your'e insecure, Its fine to dedicate your time towards stuff like that but eventually its a matter of personal taste
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Locking this as the thread is 3 1/2 years old.
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