Having an argument with your boyfriend before Valentine's day!!

Reply 20

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crazybored

You're not in love? You mean you just like each other? Or am I missing something?

No, of course we're not! I met him last term and we really dont plan on falling in love. We both know its not going to be a long term thing, we're not planning on getting married. We're both at uni, we still want to have fun without being too wrapped up in each other.

Er, two people going out doesn't automatically make them in love

Thankyou!!

Reply 21

PrzemekBB

Misunderstandings are normal things in partnership. You'll see that tomorrow everything will be good especially becouse of Valentine's Day. And remember not to accuse your partner of having somebody else apart from you if you aren't sure of that. It shows partner don't trust his/her girl/boyfriend and this gets people down. Good luck tomorrow.

Reply 22

HereFishyFishy

13

Oh dear. Just leave him for the night and hope he wakes up feeling in the mood for lurve tomorrow morning.
And maybe get him an extra big card - with an apology and words like 'snucums' in it.

Reply 23

crazybored

L0RA

No, of course we're not! I met him last term and we really dont plan on falling in love. We both know its not going to be a long term thing, we're not planning on getting married. We're both at uni, we still want to have fun without being too wrapped up in each other.

Thankyou!!

Erm, ok calm down I wasn't criticising, just clarifying, hence why I asked if you meant you just like each other :rolleyes:

To the OP, hope you and your boyfriend sort things out!

xxx

Reply 24

Anonymous #1

OP

yay, we've made up now thank goodness. :smile:

Thanks everyone for your stories and those that had arguments too, I hope it works out well for you. xx

Reply 25

matt@internet

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dh00001

even the tsr banner thingys rubbing it in :bawling:

I know, pissing annoying isn't it!

Reply 26

Spacecam

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Anonymous

My boyfriend and I had a misunderstanding this evening. It was about something rather silly and now he's not talking to me. I kind of accused him for cheating, so it is my fault in a way, but I did apologise, yet he won't talk to me. :frown:

What should I do?

Apologise again?? Properly? Possibly say you were stupid and how much you really trust him?

Don't forget to include some valentines mushiness :biggrin:

Reply 27

Spacecam

15

Anonymous

yay, we've made up now thank goodness. :smile:

Yay! Have a good day!

Reply 28

khil

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stepheh

I guess Valentine's day is a stressful time.

My bf is in uni, so we're not actually celebrating V day until saturday. which is good, i guess, because going out will be much cheaper.
But i just wish he was more thoughtful.. you know?
Like coming home and suprising me.. or sending me a card in the post.. or flowers.

meh.

obviously watch too many rom com's.

Yeh, advice would be, lol, tell your boyfriend you want flowers :wink:

I have learnt that I have to tell my bf and hint at what I want. Like, a couple of weeks ago, I had to tell him the importance of Valentine's Day :rolleyes:

To be honest, he still doesn't understand why it's important, he's just treating it as important because I think it's important, which is, in itself, really cute and romantic really :biggrin:

But yeh, you want something romantic - teach your bf in advance :biggrin:

Sometimes men just don't know lol.

And as to the OP - glad you made up now :smile:

Reply 29

khil

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dh00001

even the tsr banner thingys rubbing it in :bawling:

Awwwww

Reply 30

aleathiel

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why do people hold so much importance on this one day of the year, surely if you care about the person you're with you can show them every day not just on one day..

Reply 31

scribble_girl

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Laces

words like 'snucums' in it.

dh00001

even the tsr banner thingys rubbing it in

matt@internet

I know, pissing annoying isn't it!

If it truly bothers you thaaat much, you can change to 'Luddite' skin and it disappears. Huzzah for the bitterness of single people :biggrin:

(Bottom left hand on the main page, scroll down on skins, 'Luddite' for those who care - obviously not myself :rolleyes:

)

Reply 32

Anonymous #3

To everyone who reads this, be they single or in a couple... This is for you

Now everyone has at least one valentine :smile:

Have a lovely day, whatever you're doing xxx

Having an argument with your boyfriend before Valentine's day!!

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