scared about what guy thinks about pubic hair Watch

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okay so first what i do. I dont let anything grow into a full grown bush because thats just gross right but i always trim and try to keep that area clean. I never shave or wax because I just havent got round to it or dont feel the need to as im comfortable the way i am. its just EVERY time, i get worried about what guys are gonna think of me when we go sexual. Like is having trimmed hair okay, are they gonna think im gross and just back away. ivee dated a couple guys and im always scared to go deeper like sex or oral or fingering simply because i feel insecure about what they think about me yet i dont feel comfortable shaving EVERYTHING off. im 19.

i also dont want to "ask" what they prefer because i feel the whole conversation would be really awkward. i know a lot of guys expect clean shaved down there though because of like porn and stuff but im not shaved, i am just trimmed and my pubic area is pretty big (up to thighs). so now whenever a guy slyly tries to slip his hand in my jeans (after ive given him a handjob or whatnot), i will move away because im like what if he feels hair and immediately backs away. like and thinks im gross. although I REALLY wanted him to touch me there.

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You don't have to be 100% hairless like a baby, but it can't be a bush, you know? I wouldn't feel comfortable going down on a girl if it's a jungle, nor would a girl feel comfortable going down on a guy. Hope this helps lol.
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Trimmed is fine, also I doubt men are gonna care, once we are at that stage it's a #Win for us anyway.
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I like Brazilian. But a very thin one. When your in the bath just experiment take a bit off at a time if you don't like it will grow back and I'm happy to offer a 2nd opinion
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I wouldn't worry about it, it's down to whatever makes you feel best. I don't think any guy cares and I especially don't, but if you feel too worried/awkward about it then shave/trim.
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If a gut only likes you looking pre-pubescent down there, maybe he has the problem?
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If a guy only likes you looking pre-pubescent down there, maybe he has the problem?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
okay so first what i do. I dont let anything grow into a full grown bush because thats just gross right but i always trim and try to keep that area clean. I never shave or wax because I just havent got round to it or dont feel the need to as im comfortable the way i am. its just EVERY time, i get worried about what guys are gonna think of me when we go sexual. Like is having trimmed hair okay, are they gonna think im gross and just back away. ivee dated a couple guys and im always scared to go deeper like sex or oral or fingering simply because i feel insecure about what they think about me yet i dont feel comfortable shaving EVERYTHING off. im 19.

i also dont want to "ask" what they prefer because i feel the whole conversation would be really awkward. i know a lot of guys expect clean shaved down there though because of like porn and stuff but im not shaved, i am just trimmed and my pubic area is pretty big (up to thighs). so now whenever a guy slyly tries to slip his hand in my jeans (after ive given him a handjob or whatnot), i will move away because im like what if he feels hair and immediately backs away. like and thinks im gross. although I REALLY wanted him to touch me there.

okay help.
Some guys have ideals, but it's unlikely any guy would be put off by any particular state of pubic hair - even untrimmed.
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As long as it doesn't resemble the amazon rainforest then it's k.
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I personally prefer trimmed to bald, it's more natural Don't know about other guys, but surely they can't be that fussy?! It seems to me you've three options:a) leave it and just let a guy touch you there, I doubt they'd care, and the worse that could happen is they don't lick you out. b) shave it and then not worry about a guy recoiling due to hair (but I've been informed by various sources that shaving there can be unpleasant, in terms of rashes, coarse regrowth, itching and general discomfort btw) or c) embrace the awkwardness, and ask what they prefer.
Remember, it's your body to do with what you please, and you should only do what you feel comfortable with.
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I don't think any guy who is put off by clean, trimmed hair down there is worth your time, honey. So long as you haven't got a forbidden forest complete with miniature hagrid down there and you keep yourself clean, that should be fine.

Not every girl shaves or waxes it all off; I get awful rashes and spots if I shave. :no: Trimming it short and neatly should be fine. :yy: Stop worrying.
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Real men will eat whatever is given on their plate but trimmed to completely shaven is preferred.
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Make a poll.
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(Original post by Proxenus)
Real men will eat whatever is given on their plate but trimmed to completely shaven is preferred.
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I don't think any guy who is put off by clean, trimmed hair down there is worth your time, honey. So long as you haven't got a forbidden forest complete with miniature hagrid down there and you keep yourself clean, that should be fine.

Not every girl shaves or waxes it all off; I get awful rashes and spots if I shave. :no: Trimming it short and neatly should be fine. :yy: Stop worrying.
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Pubic hair is disgusting for girls
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Your body, your choice
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