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Reply 640

mr_person
*deep breath*

Okay i've been out doing fun stuff so naturally its an absolute joy to come back to read all this before bed-time. :wink:

First off, JennyBean Trigger etc etc resorting to calling the_myth_leader 'gay', 'a mysogynist', and claiming his gf is actually a man is a) potentially insulting/hurtful and b) does little to enhance your argument.
Do you not find it odd that the people with the most cogent arguments, who support their views with logic are those who don't see abortion as completely a matter of the woman's choice?
dude i was kidding and he knows it :s-smilie: high horse.off.now.

Reply 641

mr_person
*deep breath*

Okay i've been out doing fun stuff so naturally its an absolute joy to come back to read all this before bed-time. :wink:

First off, JennyBean Trigger etc etc resorting to calling the_myth_leader 'gay', 'a mysogynist', and claiming his gf is actually a man is a) potentially insulting/hurtful and b) does little to enhance your argument.
Do you not find it odd that the people with the most cogent arguments, who support their views with logic are those who don't see abortion as completely a matter of the woman's choice? Whilst these people may not be extremely pro-life, they still believe that the unborn child has some rights and termination decisions are not to be taken lightly. On the other hand, the propagators of the idea that it is always a woman's choice are generally ineloquent and inarticulate, and have trouble constructing a rational argument. Does this correlation not suggest that perhaps people who believe it should always be the woman's choice have difficulty in employing logic in debate? I propose that it does. Many of you allow your emotions to govern your argument, and don't present reasoned arguments. This obviously leads to frustration.

I accept that there is ground for giving the woman a degree of choice in the decision, but only when it is argued on the basis that a developing embryo or foetus has no status of a normal human being.
I disagree, obviously, with that assertion. The real question is of course at what point we start to give cells their fundamental human rights. That, of course, is one that we will never agree on, but is absolutely crucial to this argument, and is barely addressed by many of the above mentioned emotionally-governed posters.

With regards to rape. Yes a child concieved of rape is still a child, and as such I would emphatically suggest the mother at least give birth to it, even if she feels she must give it away to an adoption agency. On the other hand, abortion is more understandable in this case, as a child born of rape, should he ever discover this truth, will likely suffer from incurable psychological issues.

Also, please don't paint anyone who disagrees with abortion in all circumstances as an ageing religious extremist with little grounding in modern reality. There are many individuals who feel this way who are totally irreligious.

Saying you don't like Lib North is immature, and does nothing to make his argument less valid. If anything it suggests it is more valid, as you cannot think of anything to say to counter his viewpoint so instead resort to personal insults. I'm pretty sure there is a Margaret Thatcher quote to this effect somewhere... Yes, the woman, Margaret Thatcher. Wtf is misogynist pig like me doing quoting her!!!1111


No offence but what on earth are you talking about? The "insults" were quite clearly joking banter and came long after the debate drew to a close because everybody got tired. The pro-choice kids have made some exceptionally eloquent arguments - nowhere have there been posts that display such terrible inarticulacy as to be discounted entirely and can I just reiterate AGAIN that saying I didn't like Lib North had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH THE DEBATE! I made my points completely irrespective of what he had said, and nobody has come up with anything satisfactory to counter them! rar
P.S. Who exactly lets emotions govern the debate, sorry? The people who rationally believe that a woman should be able to choose whether she ruins her life and that of her future child, or the people who are dead set against "killing babies"? If you were to do a linguistic study of emotive terms used by either camp, I'm pretty sure who would use more to argue their stance. Just something to think about.

Reply 642

Tufts

Didn't you say you were leaving? :wink: Hurry up and close the door behind you. There's a draft.

You again? :rolleyes:

Again, attacking the individual...
[QUOTE]


Your view: abortion is wrong unless rape has occured.


Don't think anyone here believes this. Abortion is not ideal in many circumstances, but if the child will be the result of a rape, one can have more sympathy with the 'mother' if she wants to terminate.

Again, that is only your experience.

Which is part of her argument. Maybe this is where you can counter with your vast experience of how having a child made your life hell?

*barf* She isnt missing out at all. If/when she wants a baby, she shall have one. No problemo. AND she will ensure she is financially and emotionally stable enough to provide the best posibile environment. She will have her degree/career sorted *before* breeding.


There is no such thing as the perfect upbringing. If being a high-flyer is worth killing your baby, then thats your ego talking. A baby will change your life, but not necessarily 'ruin' it.

Reply 643

[QUOTE="mr_person"]Again, attacking the individual...


Don't think anyone here believes this. Abortion is not ideal in many circumstances, but if the child will be the result of a rape, one can have more sympathy with the 'mother' if she wants to terminate.


Which is part of her argument. Maybe this is where you can counter with your vast experience of how having a child made your life hell?



There is no such thing as the perfect upbringing. If being a high-flyer is worth killing your baby, then thats your ego talking. A baby will change your life, but not necessarily 'ruin' it.
ffs :rolleyes: enough of the emotive languagr please its sickening

Reply 644

mr_person
Again, attacking the individual...


The dude said he was leaving and then kept returning. Like, wtf :rolleyes:

Reply 645

Trigger
dude i was kidding and he knows it :s-smilie: high horse.off.now.


No offence but what on earth are you talking about? The "insults" were quite clearly joking banter and came long after the debate drew to a close because everybody got tired.

This kind of random insults have been going on for more than the most recent posts. Kidding or insulting. The jury is out.

The pro-choice kids have made some exceptionally eloquent arguments - nowhere have there been posts that display such terrible inarticulacy as to be discounted entirely and can I just reiterate AGAIN that saying I didn't like Lib North had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH THE DEBATE!


The problem is that randomly saying you don't like somebody suggests you aren't being impartial and objective.

I made my points completely irrespective of what he had said, and nobody has come up with anything satisfactory to counter them! rar


In your view. I don't think that is a universal feeling.

P.S. Who exactly lets emotions govern the debate, sorry? The people who rationally believe that a woman should be able to choose whether she ruins her life and that of her future child, or the people who are dead set against "killing babies"? If you were to do a linguistic study of emotive terms used by either camp, I'm pretty sure who would use more to argue their stance. Just something to think about.

Its not about the emotive terminology, is about the lack of objectivism, and use of personal stories etc. If we are arguing about whether immigrants are dangerous and someone says 'well my mum is an immigrant and shes no criminal!' it is bringing emotion into the debate, because noone ever implied as such. This sort of behaviour is not acceptable in debate.

Reply 646

[QUOTE="Trigger"]
mr_person
Again, attacking the individual...
ffs :rolleyes: enough of the emotive languagr please its sickening


Agreed. It's not even a ****ing baby.

Reply 647

Trigger
Again, attacking the individual...
ffs :rolleyes: enough of the emotive languagr please its sickening
I propose an unborn baby is still a baby. Therefore referring to it as such is not improper. It is sickening? Refer to how it is sickening? It makes you throw up? Thats a pity, but it doesn't make my point any less valid. :/

Reply 648

mr_person
I propose an unborn baby is still a baby. Therefore referring to it as such is not improper. It is sickening? Refer to how it is sickening? It makes you throw up? Thats a pity, but it doesn't make my point any less valid. :/


Your emotive language is ilogical and lessens your argument.

Reply 649

mr_person
This kind of random insults have been going on for more than the most recent posts. Kidding or insulting. The jury is out.


The jury is NOT out, you haven't been here and have clearly skimmed the thread. I never at any point called him a misogynist, he chose to infer that from what I said and then it became a joke. There were no insults towards anybody in any of my original posts, which I suggest you would do well to actually read.

mr_person
The problem is that randomly saying you don't like somebody suggests you aren't being impartial and objective.


Why? I never addressed any of his points therefore anyone could see it was completely irrelevant and I was just making a silly joke.

mr_person
In your view. I don't think that is a universal feeling.


If you can tell me what my original point was I'll give you a hundred pounds because I bet you never read my actual question. I asked why the unbudgeable pro-lifers, if they are arguing from the point of view that the foetus has the right to life, concede that it is ok to terminate a pregnancy if it is conceived by rape. So far, nobody has even addressed this point, so it's not just my opinion that it hasn't been satisfactorily disputed, it is fact. If no one has even replied, how CAN it have been argued down?


mr_person
Its not about the emotive terminology, is about the lack of objectivism, and use of personal stories etc. If we are arguing about whether immigrants are dangerous and someone says 'well my mum is an immigrant and shes no criminal!' it is bringing emotion into the debate, because noone ever implied as such. This sort of behaviour is not acceptable in debate.


Look, in a completely theoretical debate of course it's not acceptable but the fact is the very crux of the matter of abortion is how it affects people's lives. Without anecodotal evidence from real people who have had real experiences, however much it may frustrate you, the whole thing is academic.

Reply 650

mr_person
I propose an unborn baby is still a baby. Therefore referring to it as such is not improper. It is sickening? Refer to how it is sickening? It makes you throw up? Thats a pity, but it doesn't make my point any less valid. :/


Well, seeing as I had a whole module of embryology forced down my throat last term, I disagree. Babies do not pop into the womb fully formed -I'm sure you understand that. It takes a hell of a lot to create anything close to a real semblance of a functioning human being. There are plenty who would argue that, certainly before a point, the embryo is nothing more than a bunch of cells... getting rid of it is not really even that different to having an abscess lanced, something you wouldn't think twice about. It only has the capacity to become a human being, but then so does every ovum and sperm cell, so are you against the idea of not creating a zygote every month on the basis that it is wrong to shed them from the body when they could have become human beings?

Reply 651

Tufts
Your emotive language is ilogical and lessens your argument.

*illogical

Its nice to see that you are slowling picking up terms used in debate, but try to use them correctly in future. Emotive language is a problem when it is found in an argument devoid of logical cogency, but when it is part of a so called 'appeal to emotion' argument. In such an argument, the speaker will typically attempt to stir an emotional reaction in the audience rather than attacking what he or she feels to be the fallacys in their opponents argument. Unfortunately for you, my argument is backed up with reason. Hence, even if you feel that my terminology is not professional (which I disagree with) it does not affect the strength of the argument. :smile:

Oh, and 'weakens your argument' would be a more appropriate way of making the point you attempted there :smile:

Reply 652

mr_person
*illogical

Its nice to see that you are slowling picking up terms used in debate, but try to use them correctly in future. Emotive language is a problem when it is found in an argument devoid of logical cogency, but when it is part of a so called 'appeal to emotion' argument. In such an argument, the speaker will typically attempt to stir an emotional reaction in the audience rather than attacking what he or she feels to be the fallacys in their opponents argument. Unfortunately for you, my argument is backed up with reason. Hence, even if you feel that my terminology is not professional (which I disagree with) it does not affect the strength of the argument. :smile:

Oh, and 'weakens your argument' would be a more appropriate way of making the point you attempted there :smile:


Ha, ha, ha. Starting to lose it a bit, are we? Got to the point where you're correcting other people's spelling, grammar and syntax? I really, really wouldn't pull at that thread if I were you because I don't think you'll appreciate what I have to say about yours. The ability to use language does not diminish a person's capacity to argue a point. Otherwise your points would be, well, rather lacking shall we say?

Reply 653

Jennybean
The jury is NOT out, you haven't been here and have clearly skimmed the thread. I never at any point called him a misogynist, he chose to infer that from what I said and then it became a joke. There were no insults towards anybody in any of my original posts, which I suggest you would do well to actually read.

I have read all thirty-something pages of this thread, so I reject this unfounded assertion. An individual of your side of the argument did call him a sad misogynist (which, as I recall, was incorrectly spelled) and if it was a 'joke' in your opinion, then fair enough, but you can't say anything in a debate without expecting it to be picked apart. This isn't pedantry, its fair play.

Why? I never addressed any of his points therefore anyone could see it was completely irrelevant and I was just making a silly joke.

If I say. Jennybean is a ****ing moron, it will affect people's view of my impartiality in analysis of her arguments. It is expected that I will be impartial.


If you can tell me what my original point was I'll give you a hundred pounds because I bet you never read my actual question. I asked why the unbudgeable pro-lifers, if they are arguing from the point of view that the foetus has the right to life, concede that it is ok to terminate a pregnancy if it is conceived by rape. So far, nobody has even addressed this point, so it's not just my opinion that it hasn't been satisfactorily disputed, it is fact. If no one has even replied, how CAN it have been argued down?


00:51
With regards to rape. Yes a child concieved of rape is still a child, and as such I would emphatically suggest the mother at least give birth to it, even if she feels she must give it away to an adoption agency. On the other hand, abortion is more understandable in this case, as a child born of rape, should he ever discover this truth, will likely suffer from incurable psychological issues
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A hundred points for me I guess. Perhaps you should learn to read more thoroughly?




Look, in a completely theoretical debate of course it's not acceptable but the fact is the very crux of the matter of abortion is how it affects people's lives. Without anecodotal evidence from real people who have had real experiences, however much it may frustrate you, the whole thing is academic.

Most issues affect people's lives, this is no different. It does not make an appeal to emotion a fair tactic. Real life experiences are okay, but only when they back up a rationally made point. Frankly, this debate will never end, but im at least glad that your camp has stopped with the random insults, and actually beginning to apply some logic to the issue at hand.

Reply 654

mr_person
*illogical


So not only do you use needless emotive language, but you also felt the need to pick up on my dyslexic spelling? And what did that add to the debate?

Reply 655

Jennybean
Ha, ha, ha. Starting to lose it a bit, are we? Got to the point where you're correcting other people's spelling, grammar and syntax? I really, really wouldn't pull at that thread if I were you because I don't think you'll appreciate what I have to say about yours. The ability to use language does not diminish a person's capacity to argue a point. Otherwise your points would be, well, rather lacking shall we say?


Heheh, in my defence i've been out drinking :tongue:
But seriously, the ability to use language does affect the capacity to argue a point! A few grammatical/spelling errors clearly don't, but being able to reform your argument to face your opponents is key.
Oh, and I was being a little facetious in the post :wink: Thats called a concession there, you guys should learn to make one :biggrin:

Reply 656

Tufts
So not only do you use needless emotyive language, but you also felt the need to pick up on my dyslexic spelling? And what did that add to the debate?


Nothing, it was unnecessary, and hypocritical. I still maintain the points i've made up to now. Anyhow, love to stay and chat, but sleep beckons.
Buenos noches

Reply 657

mr_person
A hundred points for me I guess. Perhaps you should learn to read more thoroughly?


Er, no, because that doesn't answer my question! Saying rape is "more understandable" when a woman has been through a rape does not reconcile most pro-lifers' (notice I am not addressing you personally) hysterical view that the child's right to life comes above the woman's right to choose. In fact, I just find it deeply patronising, like saying "well it's a terrible thing to do but what can you expect of the poor dear". Most pro-lifers, who will argue to the back teeth that the child's right to life is the most important thing, will never address this complete lack of logic with any kind of committal. They will just say, like you have, "it's more understandable" but by saying that, they have conceded that in some circumstances, the mother's right to choose SHOULD override the baby's right to life. But why in this circumstance and not others? Who has the right to draw the line? Do I make myself clearer now? This side of the argument absolutely, categorically has not been addressed. Incidentally I MUST go to bed now.

Also can I just say AGAIN that I didn't address any of Lib North's points, so why would the fact that I don't like him affect my analysis of his ideas?!?

Reply 658

mr_person
Heheh, in my defence i've been out drinking :tongue:
But seriously, the ability to use language does affect the capacity to argue a point! A few grammatical/spelling errors clearly don't, but being able to reform your argument to face your opponents is key.


I'm dyslexic. Problem?

Reply 659

Jennybean
Er, no, because that doesn't answer my question! Saying rape is "more understandable" when a woman has been through a rape does not reconcile most pro-lifers' (notice I am not addressing you personally) hysterical view that the child's right to life comes above the woman's right to choose. In fact, I just find it deeply patronising, like saying "well it's a terrible thing to do but what can you expect of the poor dear". Most pro-lifers, who will argue to the back teeth that the child's right to life is the most important thing, will never address this complete lack of logic with any kind of committal. They will just say, like you have, "it's more understandable" but by saying that, they have conceded that in some circumstances, the mother's right to choose SHOULD override the baby's right to life. But why in this circumstance and not others? Who has the right to draw the line? Do I make myself clearer now? This side of the argument absolutely, categorically has not been addressed. Incidentally I MUST go to bed now.


I can only argue my position. I think hardcore pro-lifers have almost as weak an argument as hardcore pro-choicers. I guess we at least in some agreement then.


night night

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