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Anonymous
I have this feeling that I don't love my boyfriend anymore. We live together and we have been together for nearly 7 years now.
But I have lost all desire to be with him apart from being so used to it. I also feel I am turned on by women more these days.


Awww :hugs: It might be better to end it with your boyfriend if you don't feel that you love him anymore :hugs:

as for the getting more turned on by women comment, I know how you feel, I've recently started to feel like that myself :frown:

Hope you can work things out :hugs:

x
Reply 2
Anonymous
I also feel I am turned on by women more these days.


I get that problem too. Fortunatly its a two way thing so everyones happy.
Reply 3
Well you dont say how old you are but you could just be goign though a phase of fancying women? Been there, done that, found out I'm not gay/bi!

With your boyfriend, I wouldn't say end it unless thats what you really want. 7 years is along time to throw away, maybe you should consider talking to him first, see how he feels, tell him how you feel. Maybe it is the end of a relationship but maybe you just need abit of time to work at it and get yourselves back on track. Do you both have full time jobs? or are you both oftern tired and not spending time together as much as you used to? Something as simple as a holiday away together could help get a spark back.

Good luck with whatever you do. :smile: If you ever want to chat just ask.
Anonymous

as for the getting more turned on by women comment, I know how you feel, I've recently started to feel like that myself :frown:
Why sad that you feel turned on by women?
matt@internet
Why sad that you feel turned on by women?


well I'm just not used to feeling that way, I suppose.

More confused than sad I guess :smile:
oh I see what you mean lol, I'm female :smile:
Why is everyone claiming to be gay posting anonymously? Reading threads like this worry the hell out of me, why is it that all of a sudden women think its fashionable to fancy/make out with other women? You should be ashamed of yourselves.
Reply 8
I have been with girls before I met my current boyfriend, so this is nothing too new for me. I just feel like there is nothing between us anymore.
Anonymous
I have this feeling that I don't love my boyfriend anymore. We live together and we have been together for nearly 7 years now.
But I have lost all desire to be with him apart from being so used to it. I also feel I am turned on by women more these days.

How old are you?
Reply 10
blackswan
How old are you?

28
Anonymous
28

Have you done any experimenting when you were younger or at all?
Ikissmysweetiewithmyfist
Why is everyone claiming to be gay posting anonymously? Reading threads like this worry the hell out of me, why is it that all of a sudden women think its fashionable to fancy/make out with other women? You should be ashamed of yourselves.


Ashamed of being attracted to other women? I doubt people could *make* themselves like memebers of the same sex simply to be deemed 'fashionable'- besides, the fact that they've posted anonymously shows they aren't trying to be fashionable.
It seems to me as though people may just be genuinely confused or need some friendly ears to talk to.
Reply 13
Is the OP male or female?
Reply 14
blackswan
Have you done any experimenting when you were younger or at all?

Yes I have. In fact, before going out with my boyfriend, I used to go out with girls and boys equally. But now it appears I have no desire for men at all.
Oops, I meant to say I assume the OP is female. I guess that is a naive assumption though.

All I can advise you to do is talk to your bf. I am sure there is a way out of this and you never know, maybe it can be solved. You may just be unhappy at the moment. I have been married for six years now, and my husband and I are both bisexual. I guess it makes it easier and we are fairly open, but the main point here is: TALK ABOUT IT!
dddd
Is the OP male or female?

female right