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Reply 1
Just tell him you want his stuff.
Caring but firm in an enviroment you both feel comfatable and secure in
Reply 3
"I say good Sir, I think an amicable parting is in order. What say you?"
Reply 4
well wot it is i posted yesterday bout my hubby being so boring well there's this guy at college i reli like n he's nothing like my hubby, but i lied yesterday n said stuff hasn't happened, well stuff did happen between us already, feel so guilty though on my hubby
Reply 5
you're married, 18, at Huddersfield College of Technology, and cheating.

What a great future there is for any kids you may have :smile:
Reply 6
Tell him the truth, that you're too young to be married and you made a mistake. Of course he will be hurt but if you have made your decision then theres no point dragging it out.
Reply 7
Maybe your husband isnt boring? Maybe you just need to start doing more stuff together, do different things? Maybe both of you need to put some effort in to try and make things work.

The grass isnt always greener on the other side you know. You might like the idea of being with this other bloke now, just because of the 'new relationship' feeling, but how do you know that things will work out?
Reply 8
where do i go though, it was against my mom's wishes n my father died years ago
Reply 9
are you sure you want to divorce over it? 18 and one divorce under you belt it not going to earn you much respect! Anyway, are you sure it's not just a crush? Seriously, why did you get married? You seem far too immature.
Sweetie, just tell him. There is no easy way to do it.

And maybe you will think more carefuly about marrying someone next time. Generaly, one gets to know their future husband before they marry them, not after. A lot less dissapointment that way.

You're not pregnant, are you?
Reply 11
Joystar*
Maybe your husband isnt boring? Maybe you just need to start doing more stuff together, do different things? Maybe both of you need to put some effort in to try and make things work.

The grass isnt always greener on the other side you know.


i do suggest stuff but he just wants 2 watch tv n have sex all da time
Reply 12
can you talk in real english please
Reply 13
Schmokie Dragon
Sweetie, just tell him. There is no easy way to do it.

And maybe you will think more carefuly about marrying someone next time. Generaly, one gets to know their future husband before they marry them, not after. A lot less dissapointment that way.

You're not pregnant, are you?


no but my hubby keeps asking 4 a baby
Reply 14
You could always tell him that you're still young and need a bit more excitement, it might make him want to change if he realises how you feel If he doesnt think there is anything wrong he cant do anything about it!
Reply 15
Corinna Goody
i do suggest stuff but he just wants 2 watch tv n have sex all da time


I think you should speak to him, maybe he doesnt know that you feel like this.
Seriously, why did you marry him in the first place?
Reply 17
Joystar*
I think you should speak to him, maybe he doesnt know that you feel like this.


i have but he just shrugs his shoulders
You serve him with divorce papers. It's not hard. You don't need to ask his permission or try to speak to him about it. Just do it, seeing as you're so deperate to end your marriage.
Reply 19
General Mullet
Seriously, why did you marry him in the first place?


i just didnt wanna hurt his feelings underneath hes a sweet guy