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She loves me still but doesn't want to get bak with me WHAT???

ok, me and my girlfriend have split up, but now i want her back, she knows this but doesn't want to actualy get back with me. she still lovesme as she has told me this but i don't understand why she doesn't want to give it another shot, she fully forgives me for the break up. she says she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. what should i do,
try my hardest and get over her? keep trying to get back with her? or just hang fire and give her time to decide what she really wants?
i would really appreciate some well guided comments
thank you all for reading
if she doesnt no then how can she still luv u
Reply 2
she may be afraid of getting hurt again. Perhaps give her some time, spend some time with her as a friend and then she may work things out in her head.
perhaps she is wondering whether the same incident can occur again, and whether she could handle that again
she is probably just wondering whether its worth it

don't hang around for her - she can't expect you to -- how long have you been waiting for to come back to you now? --
Reply 4
She might still love you but that doesnt necessarily mean that she still wants to be in a relationship with you, if that makes sense.

Dont make her feel guilty about not getting back with you or anything like that, just give her space and time.