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Bored of Me

She is bored of me. i don't think she wants to really be with me but its hard as we are with each other i have been with my g/f for a long time, but she keeps bringing out all my faults like getting angry at little things, not listening properly and so on. Maybe i should give her space or something, she seems to be a bit angry with me sometimes

We dont kiss anymore, make out, or anything after that no more. Its not like its completely stopped as we do cuddle and stuff but the lust part has gone really i think, but love is strong. I like being at home, doing my stuff, relaxing and i think she is growing out of that she wants to do lots of variety but i feel shes becoming bored of me as she may think were like some old boring couple.

what can I do TSR? :tsr2:
Either put more effort in and spice your relationship up more, like go out together more often, or perhaps it's time to go your separate ways? You say the 'love is strong' so it must be worth fighting for though.
Reply 2
Get out of the routine, surprise her, whisk her off somewhere and do something together. Write her a love letter letting her know how much you love her, make time for each other.
Try that for a while, see how she responds. If she comes alive again you know that the same old routine was the problem. If she resists, doesnt cooperate by making time or doesnt seem bothered then i would say give up on her, shes not worth it.