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It's a little weird but I am really attracted to black girls, but I am white/blonde and I don't know how I will go about talking to one I like. I'm not even into the hip-hop/urban subculture and I have very few black friends. For the record I'm not saying all black people are into the urban scene just thats its a common experience, how do I chat up a black girl without the stygma of being 'white'?
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talk to her like a real person which is what she is.
im white, i had a black girlfriend for almost a year - very attractive woman
theres nothing weird or wrong with having a physical attraction based on appearance, it isnt racist. perhaps its just opposites attracting?
anyway, good luck
im white, i had a black girlfriend for almost a year - very attractive woman
theres nothing weird or wrong with having a physical attraction based on appearance, it isnt racist. perhaps its just opposites attracting?
anyway, good luck
There is nothing weird about being attracted to black girls. If you want to get anywhere with a girl then you need to see past the colour of her skin and speak to her like a human being rather than a black girl. Don't speak to her differently because she isn't a white girl, she is still a person. You speak to her about your interests and her interests, be that hip-hop or so on. Actually get to know the girl rather than taking up the stereotypical view which you have at the moment.
OP - I don't take the stereotyped view, but usually most of the clubs/parties/places I go to they are really few if any. I would talk to one normally like any other girl but lets say I go to a bar in croydon, I would look really out of place and its probably irrational anxiety kicking in but I can't help people will be judging because where I live its seen as 'taboo' (very white suburb).
OP - I didn't explain my point clearly, nevermind. Maybe its me who has the problem I don't know? I'm just trying to be tactile and I get bitten by people who think I'm treating the women differently because of it. What great help, I want to meet people outside of my own experiences the only problem is that I haven't met people outside my own environment and so have little experience of these things.
there are white people in croydon bars as well. bars in croydon arent the best place to find desirables anyway. there is no point hanging out where you think you might find a black girl hanging out. if you see someone you like the look of, whatever their skin colour, do whatever it is you do to chat people up. might be the street, a shop, a cafe, wherever. i dont really know what advice you are asking for? how to widen your hobbies so you meet more black people?
I met my boyfriend at school, he just treated me he'd treat anyone else. There are white girls out there who are a hell of a lot more into the urban scene than i am. I think i prefer more commercial stuff! But its good you're not stereotyping. There will be black girls who are attracted to white guys, they are just harder to find.
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talk to her like a real person which is what she is.
im white, i had a black girlfriend for almost a year - very attractive woman
theres nothing weird or wrong with having a physical attraction based on appearance, it isnt racist. perhaps its just opposites attracting?
anyway, good luck
im white, i had a black girlfriend for almost a year - very attractive woman
theres nothing weird or wrong with having a physical attraction based on appearance, it isnt racist. perhaps its just opposites attracting?
anyway, good luck
Why are you on anonymous
Anyways seriously as Sarky said, black girls who are into white boys are harder to find...maybe before you approach a black girl you smile at her..if she smiles back or acknowledges you then she could be interested if she looks away/walks away then nvm-it's actually the same as any girl...so do what you'd do to approach a white girl or woteva, what's the worst that could happen!
Im a black girl and am not at all into the urban scene and actually really hate hip hop and r&b. I hate it when people presume that I must be into those types of music because im black. Im actually a bit of a rock chick.
Anyway try to look beyond their skin colour, treat them as you would any other girl.
Anyway try to look beyond their skin colour, treat them as you would any other girl.
Dark and Lovely
black girls who are into white boys are harder to find...maybe before you approach a black girl you smile at her..if she smiles back or acknowledges you then she could be interested if she looks away/walks away then nvm-it's actually the same as any girl...so do what you'd do to approach a white girl or woteva, what's the worst that could happen!
black girls who are into white boys are harder to find...maybe before you approach a black girl you smile at her..if she smiles back or acknowledges you then she could be interested if she looks away/walks away then nvm-it's actually the same as any girl...so do what you'd do to approach a white girl or woteva, what's the worst that could happen!
Good advice
well as a black women i'm into all races and have dated white guys. My advice to OP would be treat black girls as you would any other girl smile talk to her, we are just the same same as any other girls and dont bite lol. The myth that black girls only date black guys is just that a myth so remeber that. PM me if you wanna talk more.
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OP - I don't take the stereotyped view, but usually most of the clubs/parties/places I go to they are really few if any. I would talk to one normally like any other girl but lets say I go to a bar in croydon, I would look really out of place and its probably irrational anxiety kicking in but I can't help people will be judging because where I live its seen as 'taboo' (very white suburb).
do you live in like addiscomb(sp?) or something...? lie about where you live?
why would you be out of place...cos from what i see when i go out in croydon is that there are mainly white people there...(depending on where you go of course) why not go other places...like streatham....or brixton(bound to find plently of black girls there) etc...branch out!
Good for you but stay away from those loud mouth crazy ones. Trust me they will eat you alive.
Where the hell do you get that? All he said was that most of them are into urban music which is true.
grace
i think 'one' would probably be offended if you treated her any different to any other girl you were chatting up. and maybe even more offended if you automatically assume she is a ghetto-baby-momma hip-hop fanatic.
Where the hell do you get that? All he said was that most of them are into urban music which is true.
Why not try meeting black girls online, people are more open about things like this on the net. You even get black girls saying that theyre into white men, whereas its harder to find these girls outside in the big wide world.
All he said was that most of them are into urban music which is true.
Gross generalization!
What exactly is 'urban music'?
i find it interesting that the OP feels that a Black girl is somehow 'different'. however, i think it may be down to the fact that u dnt c many black girls with white guys. Anyway, OP - just do yr thang!
Quick question 4 every1: y is it that white guys feel slightly more uncomfortable with/around black girls?
Quick question 4 every1: y is it that white guys feel slightly more uncomfortable with/around black girls?
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