The Student Room Group

Have a boyfriend but keep thinking about being with other men?

I have been in a serious and loving relationship a few years. But cant help thinking/fantasising what it would be like to be with someone else. I was a virgin when I got with my boyfriend and hadnt had a proper serious relationship before. I am only 21 and probally would loved to have met my boyfriend at a later stage in life, for some reason I feel like im missing out, on things young people do, I get loads of attention from other men, and am always thinking of how easy it would be to do things with them.

I have great sex with my partner, but think maybe I am becoming less attracted to him.

(Sorry if I havent described the situation very well, not very good at explaining things clearly!)
I'm similar. I fantasise about other guys and get attention from guys all the time, it would be so easy to get another guy. But that doesn't mean i'm going to. I'm 20 i think its natural when your young to wonder what it would be like with other guys, but it doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend but you've got to decide for yourself whether you'd rather stay with your boyfriend or you wanna go out and have fun with other men.