I need some advice!

I dont really know what I want from this thread, i think I just want to get other peoples opinions on my situation.

OK, I've been seeing a guy for about 2 weeks, but we met at a party in November, pulled at a ball in December and have been talking online ever since. I like the guy, get on really well with him and we seemed to be going somewhere.

We were out the other day and I asked him if we were a couple. We were both quite drunk and he just said ask me when I'm sober, so I left it. Anyway, I stopped at his last night and he said that he didnt think it was a good idea to get together seeing as hes going away for about 15 weeks. Then we slept together (it was the first time we had slept together). I feel stupid for rushing into things so soon, and I also had to get the morning after pill this morning as the condom came off (another prob being that I found it inside myself this morning).

I'm not very good at relationships as it is, but now I'm scared about where this is going.

Also, before Christmas, I had a huge crush on this guys friend. We have pulled quite a few times, and he always told me he liked me when we did, but then the day after he said he just wanted to be friends. I really liked this guy, and I think I still do. A lot of his friends have said that they think he likes me, he just doesnt know what he wants in the way of a relationship, and that they think he is a bit of a player.

I feel terrible because I dont know whether I've only been seeing this guy as a way to make his friend jealous, or if I actually like him.

Can somebody please give me some adivice because I feel so stupid about what happend last night.

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Yoda

Would you still want to kiss/shag/whatever else if he didn't want to date you? And then do your best if he would go out with you. Seems like a younger me avoiding the question - now I just say no.