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I have been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. we've know each other for much longer than that. We slept together on friday, and last night he ended things and said "we should just be friends".

I feel very hurt and used, and could do with moral support!

Reply 1

Yellowmarshmellow

That's totally wrong of him to end it with you straight after you first slept together because obviously it's going to make you feel awful and like he only wanted one thing - you need to talk to him and tell him that you feel really upset, used and badly treated - you haven't said anything else about this guy so i don't know what he's like but it sounds like you just need to talk to him about this.
Hope it works out :smile:

Reply 2

lljaneth

i'd say forget about him and dont look back. theres no point in trying to talk to a jerk.

Reply 3

bronsonbear

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Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. we've know each other for much longer than that. We slept together on friday, and last night he ended things and said "we should just be friends".

I feel very hurt and used, and could do with moral support!

jerk.

moral support moral support moral suport! I'll tell you now it's got nothing to do with you, seems thats just how he gets his kicks.

Did you really value him as a friends before?

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Tell him to shove his friendship where the sun doesn't shine. A real friend wouldn't have treated you like that.

Reply 5

xxsarahjwxx

Talk to him....and if hes a bastard again go kick-boxing....

Reply 6

Scarlett_Jewel

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oof!

bad bad boy.

:cuddle:

forget that friends thing, never works and in this case, there's no reason that it should! go out and find yourself a better one, after a lot of upbeat tunes and a large glass of wine :smile:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

thankyou guys!

We were friends before, we've known each other since about November and hes been asking me out since christmas. i only decided to go because i thought it might go somewhere, he seemed like such a decent guy.

He was fine with me at the start of the night last night, usual and flirty, but then when i went to talk to him he just said he couldnt do the relationship thing, and ended it. Im really confused about why.

Reply 8

xxsarahjwxx

commitment phobic?

Reply 9

bronsonbear

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Anonymous

thankyou guys!

We were friends before, we've known each other since about November and hes been asking me out since christmas. i only decided to go because i thought it might go somewhere, he seemed like such a decent guy.

He was fine with me at the start of the night last night, usual and flirty, but then when i went to talk to him he just said he couldnt do the relationship thing, and ended it. Im really confused about why.

hmm, maybe there's more to this than meets the eye... MAKE him talk to you, tell him your paranoid about it being all your fault etc. if he tells you it is, well, nothing you weren't thinking about already (and still nothing to do with you really!) and if he tells you it isn't, chances are he'll explain some more.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

true, ill see if he comes online to talk tonight. i think hes avoiding it so he doesnt have to talk to me today. otherwise i wont see him for about 10 weeks coz hes away.

Reply 11

bronsonbear

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Anonymous

true, ill see if he comes online to talk tonight. i think hes avoiding it so he doesnt have to talk to me today. otherwise i wont see him for about 10 weeks coz hes away.

ooh, be careful online... so easy to misinterpret stuff!
will he object to you phoning him? people find it more difficult than it sounds to avoid phone conversations? maybe ask him online if you can ring him up...
or just do it online! speaking from experience though, it's difficlut to get something out of soemone that they don't want to reveal online

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