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Getting bf out of my head!!

I've been going out with my bf for 4 months. We go to the same school and do spend quite a bit of time with each other.

Anyway, my problem is that i think about him all the time, literally. When i go to bed, i think about him, and then i can't sleep (this is usually if i now i' not going to see him the next day or if we've fallen out). I even wake up during the night sometimes. He is the first thing i think about when i wake up. I'm always thinking things like "whats he doing", "who's he with", "is he thinking about me" etc. This is driving me mad!!! I just want to get him out of my head and get on with things normally. This kind of thing is worst when i know i'm not going to see him for a day or two, or if he doesn't have any credit i'll wonder when he is going to contact me.

The only reason i think i think about him so much is because i'm finding it difficult to know where i stand with him. Since we have been going out there have been a few arguments over silly things. I spoke to him about this the other day and we think that (because we were really close friends before our relationship started) that when we did start going out, instead of taking things slowly, we rushed at everything too quickly. I mean, we haven't slept with each other, but we have "messed around" quite a lot, and we have been doing this since we started going out, and so we haven't really had what you call the "the honeymoon phase". We have also talked (not seriously) about kids and stuff!!

So what do you guys think? How can I get him out of my head?

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It's fairly normal to feel like this at such an early stage in your relationship. How about you try going out more often with him and actually spend more time together. What happens then is that you actually look forward to having time to yourself.