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    My long term boyfriend who was my first love left me for another girl and my instant reaction is to give him all his presents and cards back . (Well post them on )I know this could be seen as immature and might upset him but if his feelings for me have gone he won't really care will he. It will help me feel better which is what I need right now or will I regret not having those memories in the future ? Any thoughts ?
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    Hey don't waste your time sending things to him, just throw it all in the bin. That would make you feel better
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    I would personally just throw everything in the bin or donate it to a charity shop. I wouldn't waste my time of money posting them back to him. It would also maybe show him that I'm trying to make a point like "look! I'm over you, here's proof!" And would maybe look a bit pathetic and would probably make it look like I wasn't actually over him at all.

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    How about selling the stuff you can and getting a makeover? Sorry if this sounds bad, but I got a nice haircut and a pair of shoes when I got cheated on and unceremoniously dumped.
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    Personally, I'd put them in a box and store it somewhere out of sight. When my first boyfriend ended our relationship, even though we remained friends, it was still very hard. I ended up putting things he'd given me in a box. Several years on, I can look at those things and remember the good times. We're still friends now, 18 years on. I know that if I'd got rid, I'd be regretting it now.
 
 
 
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