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I didn't like these comments

My boyfriend and I went to a party on Friday night, there was a girl there who seemed quite stuck up and was 19 (3 years younger than us). He kept looking at her everytime she walked past and commented a few times when we left how she had 'really grown' and I remember her in the past etc. I felt offended by this as it came across as he was checking this girl out even though she had an attitude and was not really that pretty. Did he fancy her? I know if it was me doing that he would have gone nuts. I can't help but think he wished something happened between him and her.

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Reply 1

TrentEnd

get over it, he probably hadn't seen her for ages and remembers her as a young girl

Reply 2

Cheesy_chips

Ok, so he might have been checking her out..

But think if it this way, its YOU he is with.. you have him, not her.. if you trust him, dont worry.. ok so the comments werent nice, but we all check others out once in a while.

:smile:

Reply 3

Iain 007

cheesy is right, you shouldn't worry about it

Reply 4

Buteo

Overreactions such as this really puzzle me. That was probably nothing.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Jealous?

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

It's just her attitude, ignore it.

Reply 7

generalebriety

Heh.

Saying someone has "really grown" sounds like what some distant relative might do to a kid they haven't seen for years. Patronising someone is not a good way of flirting.

Reply 8

silverbolt

oh grow up. You say your 22 and your acting like a fifteen year old. So what if he was checking her out, its you he wnet home with,

and maybe just maybe he knew her when she was younger

Reply 9

Danny the Geezer

TrentEnd

get over it, he probably hadn't seen her for ages and remembers her as a young girl

Exactly.

Reply 10

hippieglitter

Guys check girls out, its what they do, they can't help it. They're not like us complex creatures they don't have as much control over their eyes and their mouths (my boyfriend told me that, before any guys start flaming me). At your age you should be used to this, i'm 20 and i just ignore it and put up with it cos yeah he can talk to and about other girls and he can look at other girls, but at the end of the day its me he's going home with and its me he wants to be with when he goes to sleep at night and when he wakes up in the morning. I'm sure your guy is that same, he's with you isn't he? If he wanted her that badly he would hve dumped you on the spot and gone after her.

Reply 11

playpretty

i think if he were checking her out, he wouldn't have told you. so don't think too much about it.

Reply 12

Tufts

generalebriety

Heh.

Saying someone has "really grown" sounds like what some distant relative might do to a kid they haven't seen for years. Patronising someone is not a good way of flirting.

He could have meant her bust size :wink:

Reply 13

Louenn

Tufts

He could have meant her bust size :wink:

Or length of leg if she was in a short skirt... :p:

Nowt wrong with looking, or commenting, it's when they start chasing you have to worry, and you're most likely to be safe from that.

Reply 14

Tufts

nah I think commenting, especially when your partner is present, shows high disrespect.

Reply 15

grace

Tufts

nah I think commenting, especially when your partner is present, shows high disrespect.

agreed. it's bull**** that men 'can't control their eyes'. Maybe boys, but men certainly can if they want to.

Reply 16

Tufts

grace

agreed. it's bull**** that men 'can't control their eyes'. Maybe boys, but men certainly can if they want to.

Ditto. No need what-so-ever to disrespect the lady you are with.

The girl who said 'men cant control their eyes' because 'my boyfriend said so' has been taken for one.

Reply 17

Carpediemxx

hippieglitter

They're not like us complex creatures they don't have as much control over their eyes and their mouths.

Grace, we arent "complex" enough to have control over our eyes, apparently.

Hippieglitter: Sorry i dont care if ur bf said that lol cos u posted it.

Reply 18

Trigger

Well he shouldnt have said anythin gbut your 22 not 16. And i bet if you spoke to the girl she would actually be really nice. You cant go around accusing people of being stuck up just becasue your boyfriend is looking at her. Its like assuming all his ex's are bitches.

Reply 19

sib

i think that its really disrespectful of him to mention it infront of his girlfriend, but at the same time, i really dont think that he would have meant anything by it... can you honestly say you havn't looked at ANYONE since you've been with him??? exactly... :wink: