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Is it okay to kiss people on the lips if you're in a relationship?

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Is it okay to kiss people on the lips if you're in a relationship?

And by "people" I mean members of the opposite sex within your age range. And by kiss I don't mean a full-on snog but more like a "William and Kate on the balcony" type of kiss, minus the balcony and the crowd and the royal wedding. Also, would it be different if the person was a close friend i.e. is it more acceptable to kiss a close friend on the lips?

[Removing my little story because I'm not sure that it's entirely relevant. I'm also paranoid that someone I know might read it and know that iammeyouareyou is me]
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Reply 1

if NOT in a relationship I would NOT kiss anyone on the lips.
if in a relationship I would kiss only my lover.

Reply 2

no, no it is not. smh

Reply 3

I wouldn't be very happy about it either in all honesty :smile:

Reply 4

No, I'd find it weird to do that. But maybe they're in an open relationship so shouldn't judge.

Reply 5

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by RainbowKiwi
No, I'd find it weird to do that. But maybe they're in an open relationship so shouldn't judge.


Lol no, they're in normal relationships.

Reply 6

No. To me any kiss other than with your partner while you are in a relationship is unacceptable.

Reply 7

Yeah go for it, let us know how it works out for you :smile:

Reply 8

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by shawn_o1
if NOT in a relationship I would NOT kiss anyone on the lips.
if in a relationship I would kiss only my lover.


Same as me provided they dont have cold sores:colonhash:

Reply 9

Ive seen a lot of people cheat on their partners and its made me realize most young relationships are pointless.

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Reply 10

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by iammeyouareyou
And by "people" I mean members of the opposite sex within your age range. And by kiss I don't mean a full-on snog but more like a "William and Kate on the balcony" type of kiss, minus the balcony and the crowd and the royal wedding.The reason I ask is because, the other week, I decided to "socialize" and go on a "night-out" which is something I never do. Two of the guys we were with kissed me and two other girls we're friends with on the lips. It was all innocent enough though I couldn't help but think that if I were in a relationship with a man that kissed three other women, right on the chops (even if it wasn't a proper kiss), I wouldn't be very happy about it.




No. Its something you dont do...

Let's put it this way. I would be pretty upset about that, so Im not going to then kiss other people when such a thing would upset me...

Reply 11

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by somethingbeautiful
Yeah go for it, let us know how it works out for you :smile:


Mate, read the actual post.
As a disclaimer, it is certainly not something I'd do if I were in a relationship with someone.

Reply 12

That doesn't happen if you had a Muslim husband. Otherwise I'd shoot him if he did that.

Reply 13

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by iammeyouareyou
Mate, read the actual post.
As a disclaimer, it is certainly not something I'd do if I were in a relationship with someone.


Mate, I read it. I'm being flippant because you're being dense.

Reply 14

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by somethingbeautiful
Mate, I read it. I'm being flippant because you're being dense.


RIght, thanks for your contribution.

Reply 15

I wouldn't like it, nor would I do that to my partner.

Reply 16

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by iammeyouareyou
RIght, thanks for your contribution.

No probs.

Reply 17

Kiss? I won't even let my husband hug a woman, other than his sister, daughter or mother. Kissing is not even a question. That should only be reserved for me lol 🙈

Reply 18

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by SourLikeLemon
That doesn't happen if you had a Muslim husband. Otherwise I'd shoot him if he did that.


How similar are we! Why? Cos that's exactly what I would do to my husband! 😒😒

Reply 19

Which lips?

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