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The Ugly Duckling

I have two brothers; one older than me, one younger than me. They're both goodlooking. I, however, am ugly. Unsymmetrical face, droopy eyelid, really long neck, big nose.

Anyone else in a similar situation? It's depressing me to hell. Especially after seeing family pictures, etc. where I'm oustandingly hideous. Actually makes me angry after a while.

I've always been low on confidence too, which doesn't help my general state of worthlessness. Now I know why there are so, so fewer photos of me in the family album.

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Reply 1

post a photo

Reply 2

Yes, it might be a good idea to post a photo, for reassurance if nothing else. I bet you're not half bad :wink:

Reply 3

hes not ive seen the photo :hitit:

Reply 4

starman
I have two brothers; one older than me, one younger than me. They're both goodlooking. I, however, am ugly. Unsymmetrical face, droopy eyelid, really long neck, big nose.

Anyone else in a similar situation? It's depressing me to hell. Especially after seeing family pictures, etc. where I'm oustandingly hideous. Actually makes me angry after a while.

I've always been low on confidence too, which doesn't help my general state of worthlessness. Now I know why there are so, so fewer photos of me in the family album.


My brother has that problem too. If you get a solution, put it up.

Reply 5

i wanna see please:biggrin:

also do remember the story of the ugly duckling (not saying you are), it grew into a beautiful swan.

Reply 6

ugly ducklings become swans one day :wink:

Reply 7

haha beat you!

Reply 8

oh nuts - i was gonna say that too!



yeah -- wheres the pic?

Reply 9

Are you having a laugh about him posting a pic of himself? Who would that anyone could read it.

Reply 10

If its any reassurance I come from a family of very pretty girls and its extremly depressing being out with size tens and eights when ur a twelve. but there is always something better about yourself then them. People have bad bits and good bits after all and no body is perfect altho mb sum are perfecter than others! lol. Anyways don't beat urself up about ur looks im sure ur fine

Reply 11

Long necks and big noses are just teh sex, imo.

Alan Rickman - big nose. *dribble*
Stephen Fry - big nose. *dribbles more*
Orlando Bloom - long neck. *small puddle forms in keyboard*

Need I continue? Just because you don't think you're attractive by comparison to your family doesn't mean that you're not attractive.

Reply 12

Louenn
Long necks and big noses are just teh sex, imo.

Alan Rickman - big nose. *dribble*
Stephen Fry - big nose. *dribbles more*
Orlando Bloom - long neck. *small puddle forms in keyboard*

Need I continue? Just because you don't think you're attractive by comparison to your family doesn't mean that you're not attractive.

but orlando bloom doesn't really have a long neck, and stephen fry is not hot at all, and alan rickman is just an exception, he should be ugly but he's not

Reply 13

Could it not just be a self-confidence issue? I know this girl who doesnt think she's pretty, when she's actually drop-dead gorgeous.

Reply 14

Stephen Fry - big nose. *dribbles more*

lmao!

You worry me.

Reply 15

Dinendal Leralonde
Could it not just be a self-confidence issue? I know this girl who doesnt think she's pretty, when she's actually drop-dead gorgeous.


Ummm... Chances are 99.9% definate she knows god damn well she's hot, but plays the 'Oh, I'm not hot at all' card so guy think 'OMGWTFLOLZOR!!!!' This girl has low self opinion!!! That means she'll go out with me.

Although, yes, you have touched on a good point, even really ugly guy can get hot chicks, its all about confidence. You need to stop worrying about what you've got and start using it. When you start getting girls, you'll forget your previous concerns.

Reply 16

shavenwookiee
Although, yes, you have touched on a good point, even really ugly guy can get hot chicks

Yeah, they got chances. One girl I liked ended up going out with the ugliest and most unpopular guy at work, whereas I was left with nothing, despite me apparently being "really cute" :/

Reply 17

Dinendal Leralonde
Yeah, they got chances. One girl I liked ended up going out with the ugliest and most unpopular guy at work, whereas I was left with nothing, despite me apparently being "really cute" :/


Sounds to me like you need to stop pandering to girls so much and be a bit more blokeish! No-one likes a man in touch with their feelings! haha

No go get drunk on beer and punch a wall!

Reply 18

shavenwookiee
Sounds to me like you need to stop pandering to girls so much and be a bit more blokeish! No-one likes a man in touch with their feelings! haha

No go get drunk on beer and punch a wall!


Dudes been listening to me.

Basically "really nice" means "really boing". Not sure what he means by feelings, but I'm sure someone understands.

Reply 19

You know in the Ugly Duckling. The morale of the story is that it is ok to be ugly has long has you become beautiful later on.