A girl i like...

Theres a girl the year below me at uni, who ive known for about a year, initially via tsr/msn. Basically, i really like her, as a friend. Shes really nice and really good company, as well as being really pretty. And i end up thinking about her all the time.

However, i dont know if i want to, or should, take it any further than that?

I would hate anything to spoil our current friendship, I dont have a massive social group, but the people that are in it i really get on with, and i would say that she is one of them.

We both work together at the Students Union and so i see her there most weeks, often several times a week, as well as talking to her on msn most days. And occational go out together to events at the union, and staff socials/partys.

Previously she has said that shes happy being single at the moment, having ended previous relationships before moving to university. However although i basicaly feel the same way, if there was someone special i would like that to work, not necessarily anything in anyway ‘serious’, but just a special friend i could care about.

Im probably dreaming though a rose-tinted tiredness, but at the end of the day im just a little unsure about my future in almost everyway really, and just sometimes i think it would be nice have some special like her in my life.

Thoughts?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Sorry about it being anonymous as well, but for obvous reasons i'd like to keep it that way for now.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

i don't understand. you don't seem like you like her as more than a friend, and nothing you have said makes it seem like she likes you as more than a friend or even wants a bf. I don't understand why you are asking this...

are you just lonely or what? that is hardly a good reason to ruin a perfectly good friendship.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Yeah, proberbly about right...
- I guess i just, gahh, i dont know. Ah well.

Reply 4

Dirk666

ask her out. You dont ask you dont get. And whats the worst that could happen she says no, big deal.

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

take it slowly, but make progress

Reply 6

Enchanté

Why is that anonymous? :s:

Reply 7

markymark

Hi,

Why do you want to ask her out?
Has she showed any interest in you in a romantic way???, most men find this hard to believe due to our big egos but women tell you when they like you, except non verbally - get it has she done this?

So far she's said she's "happily single" Now think about this guy,would a girl say to Brad Pitt - Hi Brad, Im HAPPILY single - No.

If your talking to her everyday on msn it means she thinks your her friend, nothing more. I suggest you forget her, cmon your at uni there are LOADS of other girls; don't get bend out of shape over this one baby.

Reply 8

Ben Dover the Lollipop Man

WOWWW, theres like 10000 threads like these talking about boy liking girl but dunno whether he should ask her because it would ruin their frierndship.... It isnt hard to search around first. Prolly takes shorter than to write your whole post

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