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What d'ya think

Right well I mentioned this in another thread somewhere but I'm just wondering what people think.

Well to sum it up I'm still in love with my ex, she has a boyfriend now though, things aren't going great with them but I am trying to sort it out because I want her to be happy. I'm just thinking when we broke up it wasn't malicious in any sense I feel I did it in a very friendly way if you get me, and recently we have been getting closer but I feel more on friend levels. She knows I like her still but I don't think she knows that I actually love her. I'm just wondering what people think like do you think she could ever take me back? Am I doing the right thing and such.
Thanks for help
Depends on reasons etc why you broke up
Reply 2
Well it was kinda two things, instead of actually asking her what she wanted in a relationship, I assumed that she wanted to kinda experiment with people so in a whole kinda childish self-involved thing I figured if I broke up with her I would protect myself from harm if she broke up with me because I didn't want the same kind of relationship she wants.
Reply 3
Lol ok 1. i really would try and "help" her with her relationship. If she wants you back then she will ask you but how do you know it wont all go tits up again? You need to be putting your efforts into getting over her not interfering with her new relationship
Reply 4
My sister's ex is trying to get back with her even if she's got a new boyfriend. She is greatly annoyed.
Even if things are not great with her boyfriend... I think that's none of your business, esp. since you're her ex.
Hope I'm not offending you, and I know it's tough, but I think you should move on. Or wait until she's not with the other one anymore if you really want to do something.
Its good to know that you are trying to help out your Ex, but realistically speaking - I don't think that you can actually help out like a "friend" would, you may be doing stuff just because you love her.
I think that you need to let her sort out her life, imagine her situation - her going through rough times with her Bf and her Ex trying to resolve the issues. If the breakup between you and her was quite recent, chances are that she is still at times recovering from it, and you being there may not really help that process along.
She knows that you are always there for her, as i gather, so if she needs you she can always call on you, and if she does have feelings for you she can come back to you. I believe that you need to move on with your life, by always being with her, you are not able to recover and do so