Confusing situation with my ex

I'm in a confusing situation!

I'm 18, female at uni. My best (male) friend is also at uni but about 2 hrs away from where I am. We've been friends for a long time as our parents are good friends and I sometimes work for his dad's family business.

We went on holiday together (as families) in the summer and I had a fling with him that lasted about 2 months. We 'broke up' in september when we both went to uni coz we decided we both wanted to be single and a long distance relationship wasnt what either of us wanted anyway. However we remained really good friends and it didnt change anything.

We meet up now and then to catch up but recently old feelings have come back. The last few times we've met up we've ended up sleeping together again. None of us want a relationship still but I think i'm actually in love with him. When I'm at uni I miss him so much and we're always phoning and texting eachother.

I had a quick chat about it when i last saw him and he said he loves me too and hasnt been with anyone else since hes been at uni. Which I believe as I dont think he'd lie to me.

Anyway I'm so confused. Im not sure whether I should get together with him. I dont want a long distance relationship tho as I was in one before and they just dont work. My other friend thinks we're just going to end up being ******* buddies though - which sounds really bad. I dont know what to do! Shall i talk to him about it?

Any advice?

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