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boyfriend issue-opinions please

Is it unusual not to go out with your boyfriend??
I dunno its just he never really asks me to come out (like even to the pub). I have been out with him afew times and with his friends but i invited myself, and after he said that he loved that i could hang out with him like that. But still never been out like that since!

Funny thing is i know his friends anyway, i knew them before i knew him.
its jst fustrating how we always seem to spend time together alone when i see gf/bfs out dancing together having fun in clubs/or in the pub.
should i talk to him about it? how much time do you spend with your bf/gf?

hmm.im just getting a bit fustrated (im not saying he cant hang out with his mates without me, just once every so often i'd like to be with him around other people)

Reply 1

My bf and I go out eveywhere together on weekends, on week days I never see him cuz he lives far. But we always hang out tbh. You should talk to ur bf about this. If he knows it bothers u this much he should start treating u like a gf and take u out and invite u places.

Reply 2

Best thing to do is just speak to your boyfriend about it and tell him how you are feeling. Just explain to him that as much as you love spending time with him alone, it would be nice to spend time in a group with either his friends, or yours. If he knew that you felt that way, he would probably invite you out with him and his friends a lot more...

Something you could always do it suggest a big night out. You invite some friends, he invites some friends and you all go out to the pub or a club together and see how that goes...