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How to improve this relationship

Hi,

I met this guy six months ago, the last three months have been really awful since i have become depressed and more anxious. Some of which has really impacted on our relationship, i really want to make him happy, instead of having arguments which make him stressed and unhappy.
What can i do to be a lot more loving and light hearted. He is away atm, but comes back next week. What can i do in the mean time, using Facebook, text, calls, letters etc . I really want to make the relationship work, how can i show this ? i sent him a letter, but he hasn't read it yet. He seems a lot less happy, but i know he loves me and wants to make the relationship work too.

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shawn_o1

You both need to be open about your problems/worries. Most importantly, do not judge each other.
Ideally both of you should find yourself a place to meet where you can talk about your relationship safely - then you may start feeling closer to each other :smile: