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Should I marry him?

Hi guys. I'm bisexual and living in London. A couple of days ago my ex boyfreind Dave showed up at my flat and asked me to take him back to which I agreed. He then asked me for his hand in marriage to which I again said yes.
We were going out for two years but in the summer I ended our relationship following his infidelity. I don't blame him for this as I was ignoring him at the time as I was preoccupied with my education. Hes bi too and he slept with a girl who is now pregnant with his child and due to give birth soon. Initially I was very exicted about all of this but my freinds have been less than enthuastic. They're telling me to see sense and leave him as this will be a huge mistake.
We've been through alot together. I'm 18 and hes 24. We meant through a prisoner pen pal scheme (he was inside for arson and drug smuggling). I fell in love with his use of literature and his love for the full stop. After he got out we started seeing each other and we were happy for quite some time. Hes had a tough life what with prison and coming from a big family living in poverty. He is one of eight kids. He has promised me he has cleaned up his act now and that he is drug free. However, he might be going back into prison for another year in July following assualt charges therefore hes wants us to get married as soon as possible. The girl whose having his kid is a bit of a deadbeat (fat, doesn't wash, dumbass, can't read etc). Shes more than happy to give Dave custody of the kid. It's going to be a girl and Daves decided to call it Rainfall. I think we could be happy together. Daves futures looking brighter depsite the assault charges. Hes got a job in London to show me hes commited to us. He'll be cleaning toilets for $5 an hour.
I would love for this to work out buy my freinds say it never will. What do you guys think?

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Reply 1

Why are you asking this here? If you need to ask someone then you don't want to marry him.

Reply 2

If you need to ask an online student forum whether or not to marry, then the answer is a definate no.
100%.

Reply 3

This is a joke, surely.

Reply 4

Sounds like he is a bad character...two spells in prison, doesn't know about protection, is a cheat, and would gladly inflict the name 'Rainfall' on an innocent child :frown: I know what I would do.

Reply 5

Good joke thread :biggrin: Like it

Reply 6

josh2716
Hi guys. I'm bisexual and living in London. A couple of days ago my ex boyfreind Dave showed up at my flat and asked me to take him back to which I agreed. He then asked me for his hand in marriage to which I again said yes.
We were going out for two years but in the summer I ended our relationship following his infidelity. I don't blame him for this as I was ignoring him at the time as I was preoccupied with my education. Hes bi too and he slept with a girl who is now pregnant with his child and due to give birth soon. Initially I was very exicted about all of this but my freinds have been less than enthuastic. They're telling me to see sense and leave him as this will be a huge mistake.
We've been through alot together. I'm 18 and hes 24. We meant through a prisoner pen pal scheme (he was inside for arson and drug smuggling). I fell in love with his use of literature and his love for the full stop. After he got out we started seeing each other and we were happy for quite some time. Hes had a tough life what with prison and coming from a big family living in poverty. He is one of eight kids. He has promised me he has cleaned up his act now and that he is drug free. However, he might be going back into prison for another year in July following assualt charges therefore hes wants us to get married as soon as possible. The girl whose having his kid is a bit of a deadbeat (fat, doesn't wash, dumbass, can't read etc). Shes more than happy to give Dave custody of the kid. It's going to be a girl and Daves decided to call it Rainfall. I think we could be happy together. Daves futures looking brighter depsite the assault charges. Hes got a job in London to show me hes commited to us. He'll be cleaning toilets for $5 an hour. I would love for this to work out buy my freinds say it never will. What do you guys think?


Here's several reasons why...

Reply 7

you really need to know all the facts first before jumping into marriage this is a big issue to get involved into.

Reply 8

Yes!

On second thoughts, no. What shinyapple said, and definatly what bubblebee said. And a little of what snide said.

Reply 9

And I think $5 per hour for cleaning toilets is way too below the national minimal wage. This thread must be a joke.

Reply 10

This thread has taught me that not only love is blind, but it also destroys brain cells (including all common sense)

Reply 11

:laugh: oh please, get a sense of humour people.

Reply 12

$... i'm confused why would he be earning $5 an hour cleaning toilets when here in the UK we work in pounds £ :s-smilie:

Reply 13

Lame. :rolleyes:

Reply 14

I meant pounds and yes i'm being serious for those who think my life is on hilarious joke! :frown:

Reply 15

But... but.. BUT! YOU CAN'T BE SERIOUS!!! Don't marry him!

Reply 16

I heard somewhere that if you can think of three good reasons why you shouldn't be with someone then it won't work... so can you honestly not think of three reasons? Jaroxski and others have already pointed out a few.

Reply 17

Ur profile says youre 17 and doing your AS levels. Go figure.

Reply 18

are some of you people so socially inept that you can't get a joke?

Reply 19

I havn't updated my profile in ages. I love Dave depsite his criminal tendancies.