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ever get the feeling that your boring?
i try talking to people face to face and on msn etc, i ask them how they are and what they've been up to etc but i always get the impression that im boring.
like they dont want to stay and chat every time. i just cant seem to go on from there cos they dont want to..
i got talking to this girl one day and we did have a good convo but she stopped it and went somewhere else. in a way it was like she was in control of the convo. but after that she kinda went all weird on me like im a germ really...i said hi to her but she looked grossed out like she didnt want to be seen anywhere near me.
im not giving off 'desparate signals'. im just friendly and i like talking to ppl. im not in their face or anything but im getting the feeling like i have bad social skills and i cant hold a convo or that i cant have a convo...
like they dont want to stay and chat every time. i just cant seem to go on from there cos they dont want to..
i got talking to this girl one day and we did have a good convo but she stopped it and went somewhere else. in a way it was like she was in control of the convo. but after that she kinda went all weird on me like im a germ really...i said hi to her but she looked grossed out like she didnt want to be seen anywhere near me.
im not giving off 'desparate signals'. im just friendly and i like talking to ppl. im not in their face or anything but im getting the feeling like i have bad social skills and i cant hold a convo or that i cant have a convo...
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Reply 2
It's confidence my friend, believe in yourself!
Reply 4
i believe can be extremly boring!
It could be something else.
Boringness usually doesn't make people look at you like a germ.
More likely, it's how you look/dress, the things you say (boring or not...could just be weird/inappropriate things), or how you hold yourself (are you painfully awkward, for example?). It could even be your reputation. It's really hard to give advice or yes or no answers on forums, with such little knowledge of the situation or person we're talking about.
Boringness usually doesn't make people look at you like a germ.
More likely, it's how you look/dress, the things you say (boring or not...could just be weird/inappropriate things), or how you hold yourself (are you painfully awkward, for example?). It could even be your reputation. It's really hard to give advice or yes or no answers on forums, with such little knowledge of the situation or person we're talking about.
Reply 7
i think i dress fine...dont think its my clothing...i think its maybe cos im not in the popular crowd...
Reply 8
i dont think i say weird inappropriate things either
Reply 10
Lol i am never boring too fabby to be so! Altho as a very generayl happy person it is a bit weird wen i get all serious mb thats boring? I wouln't worry this girl seems to be acting like a bit of a cow if thats how shes guna treat u. But tbh i did do sumin similar once wen i realli got chattin 2 this lad onli to completly cut ties cus i was bit worried he thought it was sumin more than wot it was...
Reply 11
I think there is so much wrong with me, boring, rep , way i present myself, it really worries me, but you will find people who accept you for you.
Try being less boring. "Hi. How are you? Did you have a nice day? Lovely weather isn't it. Its my birthday in 364 days, did you know? Its so soon I can't wait." Talk about something interesting. Make fun of them. Make fun of other people. Make fun of them. Do something interesting, then talk about it. Make fun of them for not having done that.
Reply 13
Sorry Yoda but those cliche lines are too boring.
Reply 15
I get the opposite, my brain works in interesting ways. I think its more often people judge me for being so quirky/interesting/random, so I'm probably not in the best position either
Meh I'm always boring on MSN. I can't really hold a casual conversation on it. I tend to only talk to people when I have a specific reason for talking to them. If I just want a chat I'll wait till I see them next.
As for in person, I think I'm more interesting when you get to know me. I probably come across as quite awkward when meeting new people though.
As for in person, I think I'm more interesting when you get to know me. I probably come across as quite awkward when meeting new people though.
Reply 18
I guess everyone will find themselves boring at some point because lots of msn convos usually die after 'how are u' 'wot u been up2' 
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