What do you make your partner 'do'? Does he enjoy being a sub? (I think that's what they're called...)
He does whatever I ask him to And if he didn't enjoy it I wouldn't hmmm "make" isn't the right word, I wouldn't partake in a d/s relationship with him if he wasn't enjoying himself because that wouldn't be fair.
He could be pretty 'alpha' outside of the bedroom? Look at all those high flying men lawyers and bankers etc visiting dominatrices in dungeons in Chelsea and so on.
When you met, did you approach him or did he approach you?
We met through a mutual friend and we had a vanilla relationship for a while and then one day I was like "Heyyyyy so how do you feel about me cuffing you to my bed and having my way with your body?" And he was pretty sold from that day XD
He could be pretty 'alpha' outside of the bedroom? Look at all those high flying men lawyers and bankers etc visiting dominatrices in dungeons in Chelsea and so on.
Ehh, he's pretty much a healthy balance outside of the bedroom XD
We met through a mutual friend and we had a vanilla relationship for a while and then one day I was like "Heyyyyy so how do you feel about me cuffing you to my bed and having my way with your body?" And he was pretty sold from that day XD
That's amazing I'm not yet ready for sex with my new boyfriend but I can't wait to eventually ask him if he wants to try some stuff out!