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Why am I always.....
Most attracted to people I grudgingly respect, but who annoy me in some way, so I hate myslef for feeling almost submissive, respectful dessire for them, even though the respect is totally grudging 'cos they annoy me? Some weird psychological pattern I have, and if anyone clever could figure it out I'd be grateful
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Reply 1
C'mon I need your help
Reply 2
No it's fine, I get that. It's like Jane's mum in American Beauty, when she sleeps with that real estate seller who's more successful than her. Even though she's really envious of him.
Reply 4
I tend to be very attracted to dominant, strong men. I like these qualities and respect men who have them.
If somebody is cleverer/more witty than me i'm attracted to that also.
Conflict makes for the best sex.
If somebody is cleverer/more witty than me i'm attracted to that also.
Conflict makes for the best sex.
Reply 5
well I'm not attracted to them as in liking or love, just sex and that's it
Reply 6
Like I said, it's hot to be challenged.
Reply 7
Yeah but I don't like it. I'm sensitive and want to make love to someone I love, I ended up getting these combined feelings of hatred and agression and sexual desire for these challenging women, which I hate...
Reply 8
You're male?
That's a surprise... you can still make love to people some of the time and have more 'aggressive' sex others..
Why are you feeling so guilty about who you are?
You obviously want more than you know..
That's a surprise... you can still make love to people some of the time and have more 'aggressive' sex others..
Why are you feeling so guilty about who you are?
You obviously want more than you know..
Reply 9
Timeslikethese
You're male?
That's a surprise... you can still make love to people some of the time and have more 'aggressive' sex others..
Why are you feeling so guilty about who you are?
You obviously want more than you know..
That's a surprise... you can still make love to people some of the time and have more 'aggressive' sex others..
Why are you feeling so guilty about who you are?
You obviously want more than you know..
The point is that I hate these(or this more accurately) girl's(who is after me) self-congratulatory, I'm always right love of herself, so I don't want to reward her with my desiring her, I want to desire the girl I truly love, which I do, but this lust is stronger and I don't like myself for desiring a person I have kind of resentment for
Reply 10
oh and I forgot to add, waht's even more horrific is that I have submisiive fantasies towards her which I can't seem to erase, I feel she's too mentally manipulative and resent it
Reply 11
What are you talking about?
Elaborate...
Elaborate...
Reply 12
Anonymous
oh and I forgot to add, waht's even more horrific is that I have submisiive fantasies towards her which I can't seem to erase, I feel she's too mentally manipulative and resent it
It's not her fault that you want her
Reply 13
Timeslikethese
What are you talking about?
Elaborate...
Elaborate...
She's just overly sure of herself, and fond of herself, it's some chemical thing where she pisses me offf somehow, and yet she gets inside my head sexually, even though I have no affection for her whatsoever. And I don't want to give her the satisfaction of desiring her
Reply 14
Timeslikethese
It's not her fault that you want her
ONLY sexually(submissively
)Reply 15
Oh let it go... lifes' to short to be so uptight.
So you fancy an overly confident/arrogant person.. join the queue!
You fantasize about sex where she's the one in charge... you and millions of others.
There's nothing wrong with you.
So you fancy an overly confident/arrogant person.. join the queue!
You fantasize about sex where she's the one in charge... you and millions of others.
There's nothing wrong with you.
Reply 16
Anonymous
ONLY sexually(submissively )
)What do you mean by submissively?
There's nothing wrong with lying back and enjoying the show!
Reply 17
Timeslikethese
Oh let it go... lifes' to short to be so uptight.
So you fancy an overly confident/arrogant person.. join the queue!
You fantasize about sex where she's the one in charge... you and millions of others.
There's nothing wrong with you.
So you fancy an overly confident/arrogant person.. join the queue!
You fantasize about sex where she's the one in charge... you and millions of others.
There's nothing wrong with you.
I hate the way that she desires me, then estimates herself as superior and tries in a confrontational , "challenging" way to rubbish my intellect (kind of subtly) because she's resentful that I won't reciprocate on the affection side 'cos she annoys me with said traits and I'm sensitive about who I give my feelings to
Reply 18
Timeslikethese
What do you mean by submissively?
There's nothing wrong with lying back and enjoying the show!
There's nothing wrong with lying back and enjoying the show!
No I mean when she shoots me down verbally, which I hadn't thought of as a calculated sexual thing until you mentioned it, I transpose that into fantasies about being arrogantly commanded to serve her...
Reply 19
Anonymous
I hate the way that she desires me, then estimates herself as superior and tries in a confrontational , "challenging" way to rubbish my intellect (kind of subtly) because she's resentful that I won't reciprocate on the affection side 'cos she annoys me with said traits and I'm sensitive about who I give my feelings to
Matey I hate to be the one to tell you that you just can't choose who to want.
If only we could!
How do you know she 'desires' you?
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