The Student Room Group

Spontaneous

Calling all confident and outgoing peeps! I need tips on how to increase my confidence, to be more going instead of a couch potato. It seems that in my relationship I feel like it, I feel like a boring, fat, ugly loser whilst my girlfriend sees men who are the opposite of me.

Any ideas would be great, anything in London that I can do as a couple would be great. Thxx
partners love spontaneous actions.whilst they go to the toilet, buy them somehing.kiss them when they don't expect and don't kiss them when they do..ask them if they'd like to get on the train and get off at a random station and just look around or go watch somebody in concert..don't be scared to be sponataneous-its more than likely they'll love it :smile:
Reply 2
The irony being that if you plan to do something spontaneous, it isn't.

Don't procrastinate about things, just do it. Randomly go and see them, buy them things, take them places. The list is endless.
plane tickit £200, Dinner at posh restraunt £150, open air concert £80 the look on your dads face when he sees the credit card bill, priceless.
Reply 4
I'd disagree with the buying stuff all the time. Why do people think that throwing money at a problem will solve it?

Basically, don't think, just act. Do what you want to do, sod thinking about her all the time.