To cut a long story short, I haven't seen the guy I'm seeing for nearly 2 months now. He messages and rarely calls, because he is either busy working (Nurse), or too tired from work.
Last text was Friday where I told him he went MIA this week, and said that he was sorry but has been doing double shifts this week and would message me when he got a chance. I didn't reply to that message, do you think I should of?
I mean I really like him and he is always apologetic to not seeing me and what not i also fully understand his job and the way he is always tired. Do you think I should message him seeing I didn't reply to his last one? or wait for him to message me?
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- Thread Starter
- 08-09-2015 16:38
- 08-09-2015 16:51
If he says he will message you when he's got time then leave it. If he messages you then fine but if he doesn't, you've not chased him. You've not been seeing him for long and not every relationship is right for you, or for him. Some people are too wet to say what they really mean so you don't want to feel like s**t because you disregarded what he said, messaged him back and never heard from him again. I you don't hear from him then you know what his comment means.
I've learnt this through bitter experience. Only time will tell whether he's being straight with you or being a drip. Get back out there! There will be plenty of snogs over Christmas and you don't want to be tied down to someone who isn't really that arsed anyway.
- 08-09-2015 16:58
Do people still think its 'cool' not to reply or delay replies to make them seem busy? :/
- 08-09-2015 17:59