Its the furthest I've ever been with anyone - should i tell him?

Over the last few days I have progressed physically to the furthest I ever have done. The thing is I've never told the guy thats the case, its sometimes clear he thinks I've gone further before because he's heard people taking to mick. I'm a bit scared that its obvious I'm very inexperienced and dont know whether to just come out and say to him, look I've done much before?

The thing that is stopping me is that we have the same extended friendship group, I'm worried that he'll then go tell these friends how inexperienced I am.

Reply 1

Q.E.D

12

Cliched, but go with what you are comfortable with, and if you can't trust him enough to talk about it, he probably is not really that nice a guy. If he is worth bothering about, he won't spread it, and if your friends are friends, they won't care. Anyway, hope it works out...

Reply 2

fairycakes

12

i agree, if u don't feel comfortable telling him this, maybe he's not the best person to do it with. u will have a much more enjoyabl time as well if youre not worrying all the timoe abot what he thinks rather than enjoying yourself.
xxxx

Reply 3

hippieglitter

19

Anonymous

Over the last few days I have progressed physically to the furthest I ever have done. The thing is I've never told the guy thats the case, its sometimes clear he thinks I've gone further before because he's heard people taking to mick. I'm a bit scared that its obvious I'm very inexperienced and dont know whether to just come out and say to him, look I've done much before?

The thing that is stopping me is that we have the same extended friendship group, I'm worried that he'll then go tell these friends how inexperienced I am.

You can't mislead him, and if he thinks you've gone further there is always the chance that he might wanna do something that you're not comfortable with. If he likes you and respects you he wouldn't go blabbing to your friends about your inexperience, that's just nasty and if he is likely to do he's not worth having.

Its the furthest I've ever been with anyone - should i tell him?

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