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Guys approach me, talk to me and text me but don't ask me out on dates watch

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    I get approached a fair bit which usually leads to a pleasant conversation and if I'm also attracted to the guy I let him get my number and they usually contact me (always by text, they rarely call). The problem is nothing ever seems to lead to them wanting to meet up or go on a date with me.

    I have asked a guy out on a date before and after a few more he said he wasn't feeling it because I asked him out first and he likes to be the one to chase. But I feel I can't sit around looking pretty forever waiting for guys to ask me out I'm going to get old and wrinkly at this rate before I land a boyfriend!

    How can I ensure I'm not always going down a dead end? Is it better for me to approach and select the guys I like or for me to ask if they would like to go on a date?
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    I get approached a fair bit which usually leads to a pleasant conversation and if I'm also attracted to the guy I let him get my number and they usually contact me (always by text, they rarely call). The problem is nothing ever seems to lead to them wanting to meet up or go on a date with me.

    I have asked a guy out on a date before and after a few more he said he wasn't feeling it because I asked him out first and he likes to be the one to chase. But I feel I can't sit around looking pretty forever waiting for guys to ask me out I'm going to get old and wrinkly at this rate before I land a boyfriend!

    How can I ensure I'm not always going down a dead end? Is it better for me to approach and select the guys I like or for me to ask if they would like to go on a date?
    Ask them out, most guys like it


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