Do i have anything to worry about?

Okay to most of you this will seem really daft.My boyfriend of 2 years is away on holiday he went for 3 weeks,but is due home in 10 days!At the beginning of the holiday he was sending me lovely emails saying how hes mising me so much and cant wait to get home etc,which made me feel nice.These emails were pretty long too.But for the last 5 days or so,he's been sort of off.Like he hasnt said he misses me or loves me?I know this is something rather silly to worry about,I understand that he's on holiday having fun with the lads etc,but its got me thinking that maybe he's realised he doesnt want to be with me anymore,time apart usually makes the heart grow fonder as they say,but maybe its made him realise that he doesnt want to be with me as he's having so much fun there!He's stil contacting me etc but i just get the odd email saying hello,sorry gotta go now i only nipped on for a minute.

Am i worrying over nothing?I dont want to say anything to him because more than likely we will have a little fall out which isnt good while he's away on holiday and i dont want to make him upset or ruin it for him.

Reply 1

Butterfly

1

You probably are but you never know...it is only 10 days until you can have a proper chat with him. Just try to take your mind off him for that time...don't go getting paranoid and upset him on his holiday!

Reply 2

Nix!

11

Paranoia is a beautiful thing isn't it?

Just relax.

Reply 3

noodles!

14

^ I agree. It's just paranoia. When you're on holiday you kinda have a tendency to want to forget about home life.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Ok thanks for the replies.Maybe i am just being paranoid,but there is so much difference in the emails,My friends seem to think theres another girl involved!

Reply 5

ForeverIsMyName

15

Mayb He Foudn Sum1 Knew!

Reply 6

Jenii

15

If you've been going out for two years you shouldn't jump to conclusions about that sort of thing.

If you have a strong relationship he won't cheat and you shouldn't worry :smile:

Reply 7

Yoda

12

You know how bored I would be of having to write an essay every day? Sounds crap to me. Hes probably just getting bored, writing the minimum to stop you complaining.

Reply 8

wackysparkle

14

ah - why do girls always think of the obvious? ---- nah, he is probably just having fun [without another girl involved!] ---- just relax - he probably missed you tonnes before and then when he kinda settled on holiday time - he gradually just wrote less! -- he'll be back in 10 - so don't worry bout it

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

Ok well thanks again for replying!its much appreciated

Reply 10

mungukwachupi

I get the same when my girlfriend is away for any length of time, I'm sure it's fine, things normally are. It's your mind being an arse thats all =|

Reply 11

grace

15

wackysparkle

ah - why do girls always think of the obvious? ---- nah, he is probably just having fun [without another girl involved!] ---- just relax - he probably missed you tonnes before and then when he kinda settled on holiday time - he gradually just wrote less! -- he'll be back in 10 - so don't worry bout it

see, i don't want to get the OP paranoid, but my friends said the exact same kind of stuff to me when my bf of a year went away for just a week and i could tell something was up even through texts/email etc...turned out he'd decided over the space of five days that he wanted to be with someone else. It was completely 100% out of the blue, and everyone said 'aww grace don't be paranoid blah blah blah' and, well, just because a girl is paranoid it doesn't mean it isn't justified!

(but op, i'm sure it's nothing like that :p:

he's probably just getting stick from his mates...'awwww you're emailing her AGAIN?! Hurry up hurry up let's go get hammered/surf/eat etc'...probably nothing to worry about :smile:

)

edit: my EX bf, by the way :wink:

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks grace!Yeah i know what you mean i can tell there is something up with him..wether its to do with me or not lol.But he's just completely changed,Hopefully i am just being paranoid,But hes been away before and after he came back he didnt really want to see me.

Reply 13

wackysparkle

14

just didn't want to get the OP paranoid :ninja:

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

OP

wackysparkle

just didn't want to get the OP paranoid :ninja:

Thanks but i think im already paranoid enough :P

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP

Well ive just spoke to him on msn..he was stil a little bit off,but abit better:P

Reply 16

Danny the Geezer

21

He's probably enjoying himself, like he's supposed to on holiday?

Reply 17

ForeverIsMyName

15

ForeverIsMyName

Mayb He Foudn Sum1 Knew!

Whoever negged me for this needs to climb back in their abortion bucket.

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

OP

It certainily wasnt me..everybodys entitled to their own oponion,and its pretty stupid that some-one negged repped you for this,its not like it could of affected them in anyway.

Reply 19

Trigger

18

dear me wtf is he doing on a computer on holiday. Give the lad a break

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