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    I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. My ex broke up with me out of the blue a month ago all I got was ''this isn't what I want right now'' and numerous contradictory reasons. We haven't spoken in 3 weeks.

    Yesterday I went on a date with someone I met off Tinder (I know not a great idea but I wanted to see what else was out there) it went great and he seems the type that I would usually go for but I can't let go of my ex.

    Everything was going well between me and him (he even said so himself) but broke up with me anyway. I want to know where his head is but I'm scared, I love him so much and actually thought he was the one (I'm not some stupid 15 year old girl who thinks her first boyfriend will be her last)

    The one I met yesterday was great, easy to talk to and I felt something (which kinda freaked me out a little bit) and if I had never had anything to do with A I wouldn't be asking this question.

    What do I do?
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    I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. My ex broke up with me out of the blue a month ago all I got was ''this isn't what I want right now'' and numerous contradictory reasons. We haven't spoken in 3 weeks.

    Yesterday I went on a date with someone I met off Tinder (I know not a great idea but I wanted to see what else was out there) it went great and he seems the type that I would usually go for but I can't let go of my ex.

    Everything was going well between me and him (he even said so himself) but broke up with me anyway. I want to know where his head is but I'm scared, I love him so much and actually thought he was the one (I'm not some stupid 15 year old girl who thinks her first boyfriend will be her last)

    The one I met yesterday was great, easy to talk to and I felt something (which kinda freaked me out a little bit) and if I had never had anything to do with A I wouldn't be asking this question.

    What do I do?
    If you love boy A so much - either fight for him or move on, if you have not spoken in three weeks, chances are - thats it. Going on dates 'to see whats out there' is not fair on the fellas you are seeing as you are already in love. You are practically cheating on your own mind.

    If I was you, and being brutally honest - let A go and do not 'see whats out there' to try and move on. It is not fair on anyone, including yourself. Wait a it, get over A and then start dating again.
 
 
 
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