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    Would you say that most women actually enjoy intercourse, or is it the foreplay ie massage they like the most? Ive never liked it, as a female, its like being sawn in half and even if it wasnt uncomfortable it would be boring. I prefere it to any kind of oral sex though which just annoys me. The thing i really like is foreplay ie massaging each other but most men find this boring dont they.
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    As a guy I far prefer the foreplay and try to make it last as long as possible as intercourse is usually over quickly. I also find that foreplay "warms me up", I don't like going straight into intercourse.
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    Would you say that most women actually enjoy intercourse, or is it the foreplay ie massage they like the most? Ive never liked it, as a female, its like being sawn in half and even if it wasnt uncomfortable it would be boring. I prefere it to any kind of oral sex though which just annoys me. The thing i really like is foreplay ie massaging each other but most men find this boring dont they.
    I recommended lube, patience and you on top so you can control the angle. :pierre: I think it's sad if women can't enjoy intercourse and you should keep trying different things to make it work for you. :yep:
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    I recommended lube, patience and you on top so you can control the angle. :pierre: I think it's sad if women can't enjoy intercourse and you should keep trying different things to make it work for you. :yep:
    Yea but the thought or feel if it just doesnt excite me. Like I like a tiny bit of bdsm (not too much and i dont tell anyone lol) and its like me saying i think its sad if women cant enjoy a bit of spanking but some women just arnt into it, like im not into intercourse. Its just I dont get how it can be exciting mentally and it doesnt feel nice as its not stimulating anything (or doesnt feel like it is).
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    Yea but the thought or feel if it just doesnt excite me. Like I like a tiny bit of bdsm (not too much and i dont tell anyone lol) and its like me saying i think its sad if women cant enjoy a bit of spanking but some women just arnt into it, like im not into intercourse. Its just I dont get how it can be exciting mentally and it doesnt feel nice as its not stimulating anything (or doesnt feel like it is).
    maybe you need to try different positions
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    Do you enjoy clitoral stimulation? If so, ensure it is happening during the sex.
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    As a guy I far prefer the foreplay and try to make it last as long as possible as intercourse is usually over quickly. I also find that foreplay "warms me up", I don't like going straight into intercourse.
    How oddly defeatist of you.
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    Ah, funny. I'm the complete opposite.

    There is no one size fits all to sex, everyone is different and gets off in their own way. You prefer foreplay? That's fine. If you're not enjoying sex however then perhaps you could try different positions and techniques.
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    Maybe all the guys you're having sex with are **** in bed?
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    (Original post by Profesh)
    How oddly defeatist of you.
    Just being truthful.
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    Everyone has different preferences. I prefer foreplay to penetrative sex, but I mean oral and touching too. I think it's because a lot of the time sex is painful for me. I like massages too
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    I personally just love everything. Sex is much more enjoyable when you're with a regular partner who knows exactly what you like. I have a LDR, so whenever I do see my boyfriend he finishes very, very quickly. I like foreplay, but much prefer actual sex.

    If it's uncomfortable or 'just not pleasure able' make sure you're super turned on, plenty of lube and try different positions, whilst manually stimulating yourself with your hand.
 
 
 
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