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Public displays of affection (PDA)
Is it right/wrong? Do you do it? Are you comfortable with doing it? Discuss!
With my boyfriend holding hands is as far as it gets... today I asked him for a kiss (as in a little peck on the lips and cuddle, as I'd been feeling a bit down and wanted some affection) and he just looked at me in an awkward way. There was a bit of silence, then I changed the subject.
This makes me feel a bit unloved. I know he loves me... he just isn't comfortable with anything in public. It gets me down for a while every now and then, just because it's like when we're out with friends we don't always look like a couple.
The only time I get PDA is when he's drunk, and it's because he's losing his inhibitions, which hurts me a bit.
Hence, I found myself interested in other peoples perceptions on public displays of affection.
With my boyfriend holding hands is as far as it gets... today I asked him for a kiss (as in a little peck on the lips and cuddle, as I'd been feeling a bit down and wanted some affection) and he just looked at me in an awkward way. There was a bit of silence, then I changed the subject.
This makes me feel a bit unloved. I know he loves me... he just isn't comfortable with anything in public. It gets me down for a while every now and then, just because it's like when we're out with friends we don't always look like a couple.
The only time I get PDA is when he's drunk, and it's because he's losing his inhibitions, which hurts me a bit.
Hence, I found myself interested in other peoples perceptions on public displays of affection.
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when i see it i think it's cute, unless it's full on groping
HeStoleMyCrayon
when i see it i think it's cute, unless it's full on groping
:dito:, or a full blown- creepy Liza Minelli/David Gest tongue sarnie. Eugh.
Does everything get an abbreviation these days??? 
It's horrible for everyone else. There's nothing worse that walking past a couple eating each others faces in public. Also, it's likely to cause offence to young children or the elderly.
So keep displays of affection private please!
So keep displays of affection private please!
As with alot, there comes a point when a line is crossed....
Euh!
Definitely not!! Holding hands is as far as it goes guys!!!
Definitely not!! Holding hands is as far as it goes guys!!!
Ha, me and my boyfriend don't even hold hands in public. We sooo don't look like a couple or anything!
'PDA'
Whatever next? So when i next tell my parents i need to take a toilet break when we're having a meal, instead of "I'm just going for a slash", i instead abbreviate it to...
IJGFAS.
Or...
IJGTLAF (I'm just going to leave a floater)...
Yeah, good one. Because that way, everyone's just totally going to know exactly what i mean....
Whatever next? So when i next tell my parents i need to take a toilet break when we're having a meal, instead of "I'm just going for a slash", i instead abbreviate it to...
IJGFAS.
Or...
IJGTLAF (I'm just going to leave a floater)...
Yeah, good one. Because that way, everyone's just totally going to know exactly what i mean....
Anonymous
Is it right/wrong? Do you do it? Are you comfortable with doing it? Discuss!
With my boyfriend holding hands is as far as it gets... today I asked him for a kiss (as in a little peck on the lips and cuddle, as I'd been feeling a bit down and wanted some affection) and he just looked at me in an awkward way. There was a bit of silence, then I changed the subject.
This makes me feel a bit unloved. I know he loves me... he just isn't comfortable with anything in public. It gets me down for a while every now and then, just because it's like when we're out with friends we don't always look like a couple.
The only time I get PDA is when he's drunk, and it's because he's losing his inhibitions, which hurts me a bit.
Hence, I found myself interested in other peoples perceptions on public displays of affection.
With my boyfriend holding hands is as far as it gets... today I asked him for a kiss (as in a little peck on the lips and cuddle, as I'd been feeling a bit down and wanted some affection) and he just looked at me in an awkward way. There was a bit of silence, then I changed the subject.
This makes me feel a bit unloved. I know he loves me... he just isn't comfortable with anything in public. It gets me down for a while every now and then, just because it's like when we're out with friends we don't always look like a couple.
The only time I get PDA is when he's drunk, and it's because he's losing his inhibitions, which hurts me a bit.
Hence, I found myself interested in other peoples perceptions on public displays of affection.
white_haired_wizard
'PDA'
Whatever next? So when i next tell my parents i need to take a toilet break when we're having a meal, instead of "I'm just going for a slash", i instead abbreviate it to...
IJGFAS.
Or...
IJGTLAF (I'm just going to leave a floater)...
Yeah, good one. Because that way, everyone's just totally going to know exactly what i mean....
Whatever next? So when i next tell my parents i need to take a toilet break when we're having a meal, instead of "I'm just going for a slash", i instead abbreviate it to...
IJGFAS.
Or...
IJGTLAF (I'm just going to leave a floater)...
Yeah, good one. Because that way, everyone's just totally going to know exactly what i mean....
It took you 59 mins to come up with that example?
Anonymous
Is it right/wrong? Do you do it? Are you comfortable with doing it? Discuss!
With my boyfriend holding hands is as far as it gets... today I asked him for a kiss (as in a little peck on the lips and cuddle, as I'd been feeling a bit down and wanted some affection) and he just looked at me in an awkward way. There was a bit of silence, then I changed the subject.
This makes me feel a bit unloved. I know he loves me... he just isn't comfortable with anything in public. It gets me down for a while every now and then, just because it's like when we're out with friends we don't always look like a couple.
The only time I get PDA is when he's drunk, and it's because he's losing his inhibitions, which hurts me a bit.
Hence, I found myself interested in other peoples perceptions on public displays of affection.
With my boyfriend holding hands is as far as it gets... today I asked him for a kiss (as in a little peck on the lips and cuddle, as I'd been feeling a bit down and wanted some affection) and he just looked at me in an awkward way. There was a bit of silence, then I changed the subject.
This makes me feel a bit unloved. I know he loves me... he just isn't comfortable with anything in public. It gets me down for a while every now and then, just because it's like when we're out with friends we don't always look like a couple.
The only time I get PDA is when he's drunk, and it's because he's losing his inhibitions, which hurts me a bit.
Hence, I found myself interested in other peoples perceptions on public displays of affection.
My boyfriend was the same in the early days of our relationship. I knew it was because of shyness but it still upset me. I always used to initiate it, and eventually he started to do it himself. How long have you been going out for? Perhaps like my boyfriend he needed time to get used to doing stuff like that. Are you his first gf?
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