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    Hi everyone,

    I met her we hit it off really well. She gave me her Facebook and we chatted on there for awhile which went well (same spark) I got her number,we kind of made semi-arrangements to meet but it didn't work out on her end.

    Heres the small text conversation.

    me: Nathan- I'm sticking to my word, my phone is a brick with no data
    her: no need to justify, we both know you just wanted my number
    me: You're right, but lets not pretend like you didn't want mine either
    after 6 hours
    her: sorry for being so delayed in replying have had a crazy afternoon! Guessing its too late for mini golf tonight
    me:I guess dinner date it is then; what kind of scented candles do you have?
    her: ones that you would want dripped all over you
    me: as long as you promise not to take advantage of me:P
    me: But what would I drip on you in return?
    me again -.- : besides, what makes you think that it'd be you doing the dripping

    I know!!! I replied 3 times in a row!! fml :/ (FYI, the whole candle things was a joke from earlier- I wasn't inviting myself round hers) I was trying to just be humorous/whitty but failed big time. Now I am afraid that she thinks I'm weird and only want sex, which isn't the case.

    She hasn't replied and that was on Wednesday night...
    Anyway to fix this?

    I was thinking something along the lines of, "Hey, sorry if that was weird, let me make up over drinks/dinner"
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    Fam she wants the D.
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    (Original post by AzimH)
    Fam she wants the D.
    That's reasonably deductive to draw however it conflicts with the idea that she hasn't replied in over a day:/
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    That's reasonably deductive to draw however it conflicts with the idea that she hasn't replied in over a day:/
    Bro trust me she's getting ready for it. Some girls need days, weeks or even months of preparation before they get down and under in bed.
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    (Original post by AzimH)
    Bro trust me she's getting ready for it. Some girls need days, weeks or even months of preparation before they get down and under in bed.
    So what's your advice? Shall I reply again? or wait for her to reply to me?
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    So what's your advice? Shall I reply again? or wait for her to reply to me?
    m8 don't reply with "Sorry for being weird", that may make you seem needy to talk and she may not have even found it weird until you bring it up. Give her time, if she doesn't reply within the next day or so start off with a whole new convo like "Hey, how have you been?" Act casual and stop overthinking it bro or you will end up making things awkward.
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    (Original post by AzimH)
    m8 don't reply with "Sorry for being weird", that may make you seem needy to talk and she may not have even found it weird until you bring it up. Give her time, if she doesn't reply within the next day or so start off with a whole new convo like "Hey, how have you been?" Act casual and stop overthinking it bro or you will end up making things awkward.
    Thanks man, I feel a lot better now I'll deffo give it a try
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    Thanks man, I feel a lot better now I'll deffo give it a try
    No worries. Feel free to PM and let me know what happened next. If you need more advice TSR community is more than happy to help.
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    Maybe it's cus you sounded extremely beta and cringey telling her not to "take advantage of you?"

    The cringe is real.

    The struggle.

    Help.
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    (Original post by AzimH)
    No worries. Feel free to PM and let me know what happened next. If you need more advice TSR community is more than happy to help.
    I'll deffo keep you updated man; I'll wait another day or two and if nothing I'll start a new convo

    I was actually thinking something humorous along the lines or, "hey you still live? or should I send my team of midget ninjas to come and rescue you?"

    Or should I stick to a classic, "hey, hows it going?"
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    I'll deffo keep you updated man; I'll wait another day or two and if nothing I'll start a new convo

    I was actually thinking something humorous along the lines or, "hey you still live? or should I send my team of midget ninjas to come and rescue you?"

    Or should I stick to a classic, "hey, hows it going?"
    Depends how the girl is, most of the time it's good to reply with "Hey hows it going?" However she sounds like the humorous type judging by the way you described it so be simple and ask "Hey, you still alive?"
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    Thanks man, I feel a lot better now I'll deffo give it a try
    Arrange a new meeting with her for closest date, 'So how about 8PM tomorrow at this bar', then a few hours before just confirm e.g. 'Sorry I might be late by 10 minutes, 8:10 today yeah?'. You don't need to apologize, and leave the conversation until you meet her in person.
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    Hi everyone,

    I met her we hit it off really well. She gave me her Facebook and we chatted on there for awhile which went well (same spark) I got her number,we kind of made semi-arrangements to meet but it didn't work out on her end.

    Heres the small text conversation.

    me: Nathan- I'm sticking to my word, my phone is a brick with no data
    her: no need to justify, we both know you just wanted my number
    me: You're right, but lets not pretend like you didn't want mine either
    after 6 hours
    her: sorry for being so delayed in replying have had a crazy afternoon! Guessing its too late for mini golf tonight
    me:I guess dinner date it is then; what kind of scented candles do you have?
    her: ones that you would want dripped all over you
    me: as long as you promise not to take advantage of me:P
    me: But what would I drip on you in return?
    me again -.- : besides, what makes you think that it'd be you doing the dripping

    I know!!! I replied 3 times in a row!! fml :/ (FYI, the whole candle things was a joke from earlier- I wasn't inviting myself round hers) I was trying to just be humorous/whitty but failed big time. Now I am afraid that she thinks I'm weird and only want sex, which isn't the case.

    She hasn't replied and that was on Wednesday night...
    Anyway to fix this?

    I was thinking something along the lines of, "Hey, sorry if that was weird, let me make up over drinks/dinner"
    Mate you turned it weird.
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    I'll deffo keep you updated man; I'll wait another day or two and if nothing I'll start a new convo

    I was actually thinking something humorous along the lines or, "hey you still live? or should I send my team of midget ninjas to come and rescue you?"

    Or should I stick to a classic, "hey, hows it going?"
    What do you suppose the urbane, self-assured, eminently desirable male who divides his time equally between a fulfilling private life and illustrious, career-oriented pursuits would say in that scenario, having previously been ignored for no good reason?

    That's right: absolutely nothing.
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    She probably just wanted validation from you. Now that you've appeared desperate she'll friend zone you as her ***** and move to the next guy.
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    There's way too many angles to be drawn from it tbh - I hate this game ><
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    (Original post by ChickenMadness)
    Maybe it's cus you sounded extremely beta and cringey telling her not to "take advantage of you?"

    The cringe is real.

    The struggle.

    Help.
    Tbh I thought it was a **** test and that's why i replied with it - but then again yes, I realized it was stupid and why I regrettably tried to correct myself
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    Tbh I thought it was a **** test and that's why i replied with it - but then again yes, I realized it was stupid and why I regrettably tried to correct myself
    Quite certain girls find you more attractive if you just ignore whatever you think are '**** tests' and be yourself. Which is what I do lol.
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    (Original post by ChickenMadness)
    Quite certain girls find you more attractive if you just ignore whatever you think are '**** tests' and be yourself. Which is what I do lol.
    Agreed. Hence why I am so frustrated with my beta AFC behavior -.-
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    (Original post by countduckula1906)
    Hi everyone,

    I met her we hit it off really well. She gave me her Facebook and we chatted on there for awhile which went well (same spark) I got her number,we kind of made semi-arrangements to meet but it didn't work out on her end.

    Heres the small text conversation.

    me: Nathan- I'm sticking to my word, my phone is a brick with no data
    her: no need to justify, we both know you just wanted my number
    me: You're right, but lets not pretend like you didn't want mine either
    after 6 hours
    her: sorry for being so delayed in replying have had a crazy afternoon! Guessing its too late for mini golf tonight
    me:I guess dinner date it is then; what kind of scented candles do you have?
    her: ones that you would want dripped all over you
    me: as long as you promise not to take advantage of me:P
    me: But what would I drip on you in return?
    me again -.- : besides, what makes you think that it'd be you doing the dripping

    I know!!! I replied 3 times in a row!! fml :/ (FYI, the whole candle things was a joke from earlier- I wasn't inviting myself round hers) I was trying to just be humorous/whitty but failed big time. Now I am afraid that she thinks I'm weird and only want sex, which isn't the case.

    She hasn't replied and that was on Wednesday night...
    Anyway to fix this?

    I was thinking something along the lines of, "Hey, sorry if that was weird, let me make up over drinks/dinner"
    She was horny, fingering her pussy, then squirt her pussy juice and felt awful, perhaps you're one ugly bugger, who knows and is feeling repulsed.
 
 
 
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