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    Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not."

    "She will like me" is fear-based, egotistical, self-absorbed, and conceited. It manifests as try-hard and insecure behaviour that yields poor results in relationships.

    "I'll be fine either way," is content, calm, cool, and confident. It manifests as a comfortable and safe presence that yields beneficial results in relationships, and attraction.
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    Just died from deepness :eek:
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    (Original post by A Gentleman)
    Just died from deepness :eek:
    It's the truth though.
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    wat u sayin fam. manz been rejected, i aint ok wid it
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    True facts.
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    Every guy should know this
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    It's impossible for me to be confident then, because I won't be al-right either way -_-

    #Desperation.
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    I don't approach thinking she will like me (that would be illogical and ignorant of the real world) however my thought after rejection has always been 'her loss'.

    I'm not sure if that is going too far as I have previously being called egotistical (not that its ever harmed me). I don't really see the harm in liking ones self.
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    The truth has been spoken
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    (Original post by gman10)
    Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not."

    "She will like me" is fear-based, egotistical, self-absorbed, and conceited. It manifests as try-hard and insecure behaviour that yields poor results in relationships.

    "I'll be fine either way," is content, calm, cool, and confident. It manifests as a comfortable and safe presence that yields beneficial results in relationships, and attraction.
    You basically ****ged every guy on TSR, except me and a few others
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    (Original post by Ser Alex Toyne)
    You basically ****ged every guy on TSR, except me and a few others
    Haha
 
 
 
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