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How To Handle

Long story but im in uni class with ex and still not over her.The class is all male except her and she flirts with absolutely everyone and comes in going on about new guys she has met etc sometimes its almost like she rubbing it in to me.I feel dreadful and its dragging my self esteem down and making me depressed.How do i draw a line under her and be ok with whats shes doing when i still really like her and am seeing her everyday?!!?!?.

Reply 1

Look how sad she's being. It doesnt exactly put her in a good light with the fact that she's deliberately rubbing it in your face. Just feel sorry for her desperation and find yourself someone who's worthy of you.

Reply 2

All you can do is ignore. Never show you are into her still. I was in the same situation as you and funnily enough now a year and a half later I have a more beautiful nicer gf than her and don't even know what I saw in my ex now.

Reply 3

How did it end between you two? Was it an amicable split?
The problem is you don't know if she's deliberately rubbing it in your face. Is she the sort of gal who'd do this? Does she know you're still into her?

Reply 4

It didnt end well,she split up with me and i stopped talking to her because i felt she used me A LOT and said things she didnt mean.She wanted to be friends but i didnt think it would work.She was very very angry that i wouldnt be her friend and that was the last i sopke to her.She knows or knew i still had feelings for her and has told out mutual friends i still "love her".Its embarassing as i feel the other people in my class know this and when shes going on about who "she fancies now" they kind laugh at me.

Reply 5

Please mate, pick your self up - go mingle with other girls! Stop thinking about this bint. All you need is money for a vodka and diet coke in your wallet and a few words like 'pretty' and 'beautiful in your vocab. A new bird wd shut them all up.